Last few days have been no good and Easter even worse

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Well I'm coming up on two months now since the split up with very limited contact. 5 years down the tubes. I have been doing very good the last few weeks but this week has kicked my butt. I have been so down and upset thsi week and I don't know why. Today has been even worse, first Holiday with out her and her daughter and it sucks! I broke down crying this morning I'm just having such a hard time dealing with this... I wish this pain would stop

[dsw31]

I am having a hard time too.I think weekends are the worst for me.I don't really have much advice but, just know you're not alone.

[SilverBlueAndGold]

Yep. Weekends can be the worst. We need to just keep filling our time with activity and people as much as possible.

[xxSRMxx]

Youre definately not alone here, today I have most definately hit rock bottom with it being easter too... Chin up

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Thanks guys... Its nice that we all have each other and on the same page. I can't show my emotions to my family because they don't understand why I'm upset two months later.

 

To top it off she texted me not long ago saying hope your having a good easter and to tell my family that her and her daughter wish them a happy easter. That just tore me up. I have done nothing but cry all day it seems like. I just want to call her and tell her how much I want things back but I'm not and I know I cant!

[perryb13]

Thanks guys... Its nice that we all have each other and on the same page. I can't show my emotions to my family because they don't understand why I'm upset two months later.

 

To top it off she texted me not long ago saying hope your having a good easter and to tell my family that her and her daughter wish them a happy easter. That just tore me up. I have done nothing but cry all day it seems like. I just want to call her and tell her how much I want things back but I'm not and I know I cant!

 

Nah, don't call and beg for her to come back. I've done it and you'll only look back and think "wow that was so not worth it" stay strong man, don't give in to the nagging feelings

[CopingGal]

Weekends are the worst. That's one reason why I focused on some humanitarian projects on this weekend. This weekend is flying by! Usually on the weekends I feel like crap. This weekend I feel good. My mind is in a good place and I am helping people in need.

[Mr Scorpio]

I can't show my emotions to my family because they don't understand why I'm upset two months later.

 

I can only assume then that none of them have ever had their hearts broken, especially to the degree of losing a five-year relationship. At eight weeks I was certainly through the worst of it -- the not being able to sleep more than four hours and not being able to eat more than once a day -- but it still hurt like hell.

 

But, as others have already mentioned, calling her and groveling won't make you feel any better. I imagine that she already knows how you feel?

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I can only assume then that none of them have ever had their hearts broken, especially to the degree of losing a five-year relationship. At eight weeks I was certainly through the worst of it -- the not being able to sleep more than four hours and not being able to eat more than once a day -- but it still hurt like hell.

 

But, as others have already mentioned, calling her and groveling won't make you feel any better. I imagine that she already knows how you feel?

 

My parents have been together for 27 years so I don't think they do. My mother has been supportive but my father keeps telling me to man up. I have been doing that but yesterday kicked me in the teeth.

 

I know not to call her and I have not done it. Shes been the one to contact me each time since the split but im holding strong. The last big talk we had I made it clear how I feel so the ball is in her court for sure.

[djmm]

its been 10 months since my break up of 10 year relationship. i hate to be cliche but time will heal you. sure, i still have moments of sadness, but the time has softened the blow.