somedude81 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 i agree with this to an extent. face is more important than body, but a handsome face or a good body cannot compensate a bad personality. That's a bold-faced lie. A tall guy with a good looking face and a nice body can treat women like crap and they'll keep coming back for more. And he'll have no shortage of women. Height, looks and muscle are very important to women. If a guy is lacking in one area, he better make up for it with the other two or at least have a killer personality or be rich. 1
jobaba Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I always see women here comment...."you need more confidence", "it´s your bad aura that is unattractive", and so on.... I laugh at that answers like that!, because in reality there are VERY few people that have some unattractive vipe. Most guy´s don´t have a outstanding personality and never will. I have seen TOTAL LOSERS with pretty face get A LOT of girls....guy´s that have no personality and socially awkward. Female friend told me one time "if a guy´s face is unattractive there is nothing he can do". Face is 80% of the attraction. Btw guy´s that think they are friendzoned because they are to "nice" are total losers....it´s because there is a lack of a physical attraction. Haha. Yes, there's a lot of conflicting information floating around when it comes to what women look for in a man. A lot of women will tell you to work on your confidence, talent, and career. And then you still strike out. After all, a woman needs physical attraction. So what to do? To me, the answer is really quantity. That is the way to get past the looks barrier if you ain't great looking. Eventually one will think you are cute or be able to look past your physical and see your other qualities. It may take a while, but you do what you gotta do. In the meantime, make yourself into the best person you can ... for you, not for some hypothetical woman you want to charm.
AD1980 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 i agree with this to an extent. face is more important than body, but a handsome face or a good body cannot compensate a bad personality. True but looks gets your foot in the door to get a chance to show other qualities without looks u cant even get your foot in the door 1
jobaba Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 That's a bold-faced lie. A tall guy with a good looking face and a nice body can treat women like crap and they'll keep coming back for more. And he'll have no shortage of women. Height, looks and muscle are very important to women. If a guy is lacking in one area, he better make up for it with the other two or at least have a killer personality or be rich. For a lot of women, maybe even the majority, yes. But for some women, no. I know a woman who is friend of a friend. But when I see her, she's cool to me. She's HOT! Like a 10, 9 at least. Her face is strikingly good looking and her body is smoking. She's ripped toned, tanned. She's also really plastic and shallow. She toys with guys who are interested in her. She flirts and cavorts around with guys she has no interest in. She calls people ugly and talks about them like they're lower than her. I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. And I know there's women out there that are the same (even though there might not be many). It's a lot more worthwhile to seek out the minority than try to impress the majority, my friend.
jobaba Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 True but looks gets your foot in the door to get a chance to show other qualities without looks u cant even get your foot in the door Yup. That's correct. So you just move on to the next door, and the next and the next. And never waste your time at one door unless you get inside.
Negative Nancy Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Height, looks and muscle are very important to women. Just as weight, looks and big tits are to men....especially to you, as we all know on here.
somedude81 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 For a lot of women, maybe even the majority, yes. But for some women, no. I know a woman who is friend of a friend. But when I see her, she's cool to me. She's HOT! Like a 10, 9 at least. Her face is strikingly good looking and her body is smoking. She's ripped toned, tanned. She's also really plastic and shallow. She toys with guys who are interested in her. She flirts and cavorts around with guys she has no interest in. She calls people ugly and talks about them like they're lower than her. I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. And I know there's women out there that are the same (even though there might not be many). She sounds charming. It's a lot more worthwhile to seek out the minority than try to impress the majority, my friend. And that's where it gets hard. Having to find the one in a million girl who isn't swayed by a pretty face and who is actually available. Just as weight, looks and big tits are to men....especially to you, as we all know on here. Hardly. I would never turn down a girl if she didn't have big tits, was a few pounds over weight and only average in looks. The majority of women, have much more stringent physical standards than I do.
Author Necromancer Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 I've never seen a socially awkward guy get a ton of women no matter how good looking he was. I've seen some pretty boring and snooze worthy guys get a lot of women because they were attractive though. Girls would laugh at material like “why did the chicken cross the road” when it came from their mouths. They do need a minimum level of social competency. The real truth is that most guys who don't get women don't really want them. There are just as many hideous women out there as there are hideous guys, no excuse for not being with someone because of your looks. I have a bad Acne and have had for few years....sometimes i´m bad and sometimes i am good. I have almost maxed my looks...... female friend told me once "dude, you dress different than other guys, your always so well dressed". still i´m not getting the results i want......
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Another thread by a guy who doesn't get women claiming to know what women want. 2
Author Necromancer Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Coludnt agree more while you need a personality to keep a relationship looks get you in the door and if you dont past that looks threshold you have little chance.. I love the magic confidence word thrown around as if its a magic potion..I make a thread how many good looking friend gets tons of women and they say i should ask him for tips when its his looks get his foot in the door.. Random women dont approach him because they sense something great about him he gets approached because hes good looking..Yeah u need more ten that to sustain something but he gets tons of opportunities with women because of his looks. My best friend that gets much more girls than me once told me "dude i wish i had the confidence you have", i once ran after a girl on the street just to ask her out......she said "no". i have asked out few girls at work and have just got flakes. While some guy´s who don´t even have the balls to approach get MUCH more girls than me......but at least i know who the REAL man is. Life is not fair....
Author Necromancer Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Another thread by a guy who doesn't get women claiming to know what women want. HAHAHHAHAHA!!!!!, So you´r personality is the "holy grail" that magicly attracts women?? Give me a ****ing break!!.....i hang out with girls every day, they are most slightly above average(some are pretty) and drooling over some pretty face boys that they don´t even know and are out of their leagues. I will tell you what girls want "THEY WANT THE GUY´S THAT THEY CAN´T HAVE".
FitChick Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Necromancer, Proactiv is supposed to be good for acne.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Of the last few guys I dated, one of them (A) was gorgeous, and another (B) was average and possibly a bit funny-looking to some. Yeah, A was sexy, and he was more intelligent than B. But B was much more magnetic and attractive to me because of his attitude, disposition, and how he treated me. And I can say from my own personal experience lately that style and attitude have a HUGE effect on how people perceive you. A couple of years ago, few men approached or complimented me when I was out, because I was sad and mopey at the core. Now I'm dressing up and being outgoing, just having fun wherever I go, and pretty much daily, numerous men approach me with a dreamy look to tell me that I look beautiful. This is due to the style and attitude I am choosing to embody, not the face or body I was born with. It's a night and day difference. 1
FitChick Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 The real truth is that most guys who don't get women don't really want them. There are just as many hideous women out there as there are hideous guys, no excuse for not being with someone because of your looks. Just read PhillyDude's latest. I see plenty of unattractive (short, overweight, plain or ugly) men with attractive women. I always think, She could do so much better. Clearly those men have something about their personalities that is attractive to those women. Perhaps they are kind, thoughtful, generous, funny, caring? 1
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 HAHAHHAHAHA!!!!!, So you´r personality is the "holy grail" that magicly attracts women?? Give me a ****ing break!!.....i hang out with girls every day, they are most slightly above average(some are pretty) and drooling over some pretty face boys that they don´t even know and are out of their leagues. I will tell you what girls want "THEY WANT THE GUY´S THAT THEY CAN´T HAVE". Reality check: women want a man with confidence and who makes them laugh. It's that simple. Just two weeks ago I was at the Ginger Man (a pub in Austin I recommend). I saw a guy who looked like Tom Green laughing with two cutie college women. Sitting some feet away was a jealous looking guy that looked good enough to be a model for Esquire magazine. I'm thinking the Tom Green dude knew how to make the women laugh, while the model-guy was self-absorbed and couldn't crack a joke to save his life. To all the guys out there: have confidence and make women laugh. You'll get further with women than you will with looks alone. 1
Author Necromancer Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Necromancer, Proactiv is supposed to be good for acne. I will maybe try it out , i have tried many things but they never go permanently......It lowers my chances with girls as most guys don´t have them
mesmerized Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Reality check: women want a man with confidence and who makes them laugh. It's that simple. Just two weeks ago I was at the Ginger Man (a pub in Austin I recommend). I saw a guy who looked like Tom Green laughing with two cutie college women. Sitting some feet away was a jealous looking guy that looked good enough to be a model for Esquire magazine. I'm thinking the Tom Green dude knew how to make the women laugh, while the model-guy was self-absorbed and couldn't crack a joke to save his life. To all the guys out there: have confidence and make women laugh. You'll get further with women than you will with looks alone. Just because a guy was making women laugh doesn't mean they would have sex with him lol There are a lot of guys who make me laugh but I would never sleep with them. Not saying all women are like me though. I think everyone is different. Being confident and funny will certainly go a long way but not all women are going to want to be intimate with a man because of those.
jobaba Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Just read PhillyDude's latest. I see plenty of unattractive (short, overweight, plain or ugly) men with attractive women. I always think, She could do so much better. Clearly those men have something about their personalities that is attractive to those women. Perhaps they are kind, thoughtful, generous, funny, caring? This is all perspective. I rarely see a couple where I think "Wow, she's way too good for him" and vice versa. A few times I do. But mostly it's because I don't think anybody is that good looking or anybody is that ugly. Redirect Notice My favorite show. A lot of people think she is way too good for him. He is short. She could get a taller better looking guy. So what! He's cute. I wouldn't bat an eyebrow if they were walking down the street together. So much of leagues is in peoples' heads.
somedude81 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 This is all perspective. I rarely see a couple where I think "Wow, she's way too good for him" and vice versa. A few times I do. But mostly it's because I don't think anybody is that good looking or anybody is that ugly. Uh, I never see situations where the girl is too good for the guy. Vice versa? All the time. Redirect Notice My favorite show. A lot of people think she is way too good for him. He is short. She could get a taller better looking guy. So what! He's cute. I wouldn't bat an eyebrow if they were walking down the street together. So much of leagues is in peoples' heads. You do know it's TV right? That would never happening IRL.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Just because a guy was making women laugh doesn't mean they would have sex with him lol There are a lot of guys who make me laugh but I would never sleep with them. Not saying all women are like me though. I think everyone is different. Being confident and funny will certainly go a long way but not all women are going to want to be intimate with a man because of those. Where did I say making a woman laugh will make her wanna have sex with you?
Anela Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 The only times I've considered one person to be too good for another, were if one treated the one abominably. I know of people who have thought that my sister is so pretty, and could do much better than the guy who is now her fiance. He's not that attractive, is twenty-three years older than she is; I only thought she was better than him, when he hit on me, and treated her like crap - the few times she let on that something was up. 2
mesmerized Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Where did I say making a woman laugh will make her wanna have sex with you? You didn't but I don't think the OP or the other guys here are talking about just getting a woman to talk to them. The end result that most guys want is a sexual or romantic relationship.
Negative Nancy Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Necromancer, Proactiv is supposed to be good for acne. Accutane is better, but it was pulled off the market.
Author Necromancer Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Reality check: women want a man with confidence and who makes them laugh. It's that simple. Just two weeks ago I was at the Ginger Man (a pub in Austin I recommend). I saw a guy who looked like Tom Green laughing with two cutie college women. Sitting some feet away was a jealous looking guy that looked good enough to be a model for Esquire magazine. I'm thinking the Tom Green dude knew how to make the women laugh, while the model-guy was self-absorbed and couldn't crack a joke to save his life. To all the guys out there: have confidence and make women laugh. You'll get further with women than you will with looks alone. Girls call me funny all the time.....one of my female friends said that she gets always something in the cheeks when she is hangs out with me because i´m so funny(no jokes). (she likes me that´s 100%). I know being funny will increase your chances allot....did one of them go home with him? Many funny guy´s will just been seen as friends if they are not physically attractive and used by girls. Girls often reward good looking guy´s with alpha traits and ugly guy´s with losers traits. But in the end looks matter allot! My English sucks.....second language
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 You didn't but I don't think the OP or the other guys here are talking about just getting a woman to talk to them. The end result that most guys want is a sexual or romantic relationship. I'm confused. A sexual or romantic requires getting a woman to talk to the guy who is interested.
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