eduardomesa Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 8 months now. I love her to death and thats why i cant explain why. I cant get over her sexual past. Its killing me inside. Ive never felt so ****ty in my life .. i know i never should've asked and she never should've told me all that she has done.. i have known her for almost 2 years now and in reality i allready knew most the stuff she has done .. like having a threesome or sleeping fwith more than 15 guys and the worst part is that i know more than half of em so its like a constant reminder everyday and now she goes telling me that she liked this kids a lot. I dont know how to feel. And most thia Guys were the biggest losers ever She even had sex with a couple of friends like right in front of me. Befpre we got tpgether we started t hang out a lott and them she left for a week and **** another guy but she came back saying i wa the pnly one for her. I know alcphol has a lot to do with it but it sucks.. i. Guess she has been really good ever since we got together officially but i know anything can happen if she drinks.. I always had feelings for her thats why im so hurt i guess she didnt give a **** about me in the past. Thats why she did stuff in front of me but i just have so many iictures in my mind and nasty thoughts about her. I dont know what to do. Im seriously going crazy. I cant understand how i can be so happy one minute and the next im back to thinking all that bull****. I hate it but its like i cant control it. I dont know what to do. I wanna be happy with her but is this too much?? Have i seen too much? ? Have i heard too much? ? Please help
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I can't think of how to answer this, it's such an alien thing to me... I have never known of a woman behaving so wantonly as she has.... I don't know how to bring you comfort or counsel.... As things stand, the only way I see you getting over this is if she completely changes her ways, attitudes and habits, sees such behaviour is destructive and disrespectful - and begins to act more like a one-man girl, and is faithful, loving and considerate of your feelings and opinions.... i don't see any way you can move forward otherwise.....
FitChick Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Get her to go to Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and make sure she gets those birth control implants because she can't be trusted to take The Pill.
ThatDudeXO Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Personally, I wouldn't make this kinda of woman my girlfriend but whatever. My ex lied to me about her past and had a semi-threesome (she was with a girl but did nothing with the guy) - that drove me crazy, which drove her crazy cause I kept going on about it. I basically kept questioning her about it until I was over it. I never really got over it, I just loved her so much I kinda forgot about that stuff. I'm sorry I can't be of much help. It's just one of those "do you love them enough to move on past it" things.
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