Lobouspo Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 So last night I get this mysterious text asking for me by name. After a few hints, and a little investigating on my part, I figure it out. It was a woman I met at a club in 2009. The weird part is we never even went out, we exchanged texts for a week or two, but she kinda blew me off, and I really didn't pursue her, because she was a stripper and after a bad experience dating one, didn't want to go there for obvious reasons. The only reason I remember her is because she was drop dead gorgeous. Anyway she tells me she quit stripping and is in school etc....she asks me if I'm single and is kind of dropping hints about getting together. I suggest lunch and she enthusiastically accepts. So i suggest a day next weekend and no response. WTF? ...i know she didnt get me mixed up with someone else because she knew my name, where we met, and what I did for a living. Why would she bother to get in touch with me after 3 years and then disappear? Any thoughts opinions?
Frank13 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 One of two things. Either you gave her the ego boost she was looking for by agreeing to meet with her, so now she doesn't need to meet with you, or she just hasn't gotten around to replying yet and isn't in a hurry to because she knows you have said yes.
Author Lobouspo Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 So she replys tonight to my text, over 24 hours since i asked her if she wanted to get together. How many peopls take over a day to respond to a text? Is she already playing games with me? We exchanged some updated pics with one another, and she said she liked mine. How should i proceed?
razz90 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 maybe she was just really busy, or realized she might have been too keen before, so is trying to act less keen so it doesn't put you off. If I were you I wouldn't sweat it, and just go on that date, and see where it leads...
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