xztjohn Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 (edited) Its been 6 months now and we had a pretty nasty break up. I feel like just texting her "Do you think how you handled yourself after the break up was really bad?" I haven't really spoke to her for along time, she contacts me but I just straight up ignore her for 3 months straight now. She basically left me for some other guy and the last time she contacted me she called me twice and asked if I could help her with bio hw, cause she does not want to fail. I never really told her how I felt and acted real nice when she did all this stuff. Should I? Edited April 8, 2012 by xztjohn
ShaneSchommer Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 No, I wouldnt text that, or text her at all. What do you expect her to say? I think it will just cause a fight. You dont want that. Keep with no contact.
Author xztjohn Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 I guess I just want a reaction from her. I don't understand how someone can be so cruel. I feel like the next time she contacts me, I am going to respond, maybe in a mean tone. Like " why the **** are you still contacting me? After all the **** you put me through, you are a piece of ****." I have been ignoring her for 3 months now, but I feel like im going to break soon
Author xztjohn Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 I think id say if she responds to me next time "You know lets say if the tables were turned and I was the one that went out with a girl and started going on dates soon after our break up and having sex with this girl while my girlfriend was at home crying and wishing I would not do these things. I would feel like a horrible person and stop doing these things because I respect her enough to not do this and I respect myself to. On top of that if I did do these things, I would at least not constantly contact her while she is in a healing process and manipulate her, while weighing my options making it seem like we would get back. I would feel like a horrible person if I did all these things. And if you don't feel like a horrible person or feel bad for doing all this, then I do not want to be with a bad person, and maybe I didn't lose anything after all." I just feel like sending her that next time she contacts me. Would that be a wise choice? I never told her how i really felt.......
dsw31 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I think id say if she responds to me next time "You know lets say if the tables were turned and I was the one that went out with a girl and started going on dates soon after our break up and having sex with this girl while my girlfriend was at home crying and wishing I would not do these things. I would feel like a horrible person and stop doing these things because I respect her enough to not do this and I respect myself to. On top of that if I did do these things, I would at least not constantly contact her while she is in a healing process and manipulate her, while weighing my options making it seem like we would get back. I would feel like a horrible person if I did all these things. And if you don't feel like a horrible person or feel bad for doing all this, then I do not want to be with a bad person, and maybe I didn't lose anything after all." I just feel like sending her that next time she contacts me. Would that be a wise choice? I never told her how i really felt....... OMG! I can totally relate but, it really won't do you any good.It will either make her give you an apology that she didn't intend to give you willingly, or, it may just cause a fight.I know it's tough not to text her.You did great ignoring her for 3 months.Silence is golden.
Author xztjohn Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 (edited) should I just never respond to her? I feel like I would respond to her one day, when the time is right that is. Also do you guys think I should unblock her from facebook? Edited April 8, 2012 by xztjohn
CaliBabe Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Just don't respond. By doing so you are giving her a reaction. She will know she still has you emotionally. 1
rejected_lost Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 DO NOT RESPOND TO HER! dude... I know it's really tempting to give her a piece of your mind... but believe me it won't help... she left you for another guy and that is something unforgivable... and inspite of making you go through hell, she has the guts to ask for your help to finish off her homework? I've been through a similar situation... I was madly in love with this girl who was so so nice to me... but then she cruelly shut the door on me for someone else... I was shattered and went into depression... the only advice I got from all the experienced and mature individuals here on LoveShack and even on other forums was to just go NO CONTACT! she tried to get in touch with me twice... but I didn't budge... dude she crashed your heart and watched you bleed... have no mercy and no second thoughts... just don't respond to anything she does... keep your head high and check out other girls... and concentrate on yourself... stay strong bud!!!
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 people really need to check your thread history before responding to you, xztjohn.... you have basically posted the same stuff, time and time and time again.... Maybe you need to review all the replies in your other threads honey, because this is just "lather, rinse repeat" stuff.... How many more times are you going to put yourself through this cycle of self-inflicted pain?
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