quietGuy13 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Just wondering. Because i've heard that many women go with old guys. Also, many girls from thailand etc i've seen them married with old white guys..so i wonder, do they really like them or what? Also the ones from Playboy mansion or something are young and they date that Hugh hefner guys so i'm guessing lots of women go for super old guys. anyways, would you date an old granpa?
SSexySSadie Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 aha Super old guys who have money...lol...jk....oh, and what's wrong with forty-something year old women......huh?
kaylan Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Women who want money, yes. Who want sex, love, and companionship...Id think not. 2
carhill Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 A 31yo local (Salinas) TV anchor married a 66yo former mayor of Carmel, better known for his roles in 'Dirty Harry' and other movies, and they've been married since 1996 and have one child. He was married for 31 years to his first wife.
Pierre Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Just wondering. Because i've heard that many women go with old guys. Also, many girls from thailand etc i've seen them married with old white guys..so i wonder, do they really like them or what? Also the ones from Playboy mansion or something are young and they date that Hugh hefner guys so i'm guessing lots of women go for super old guys. anyways, would you date an old granpa? If an older person (male or female) has money and is in reasonable physical condition they can get younger mates. Look at Madonna, Demi Moore, and Clint Eastwood. A 60 year old is probably OK for someone 20 years younger if she comes from a country where that is common practice. BTW, there are young women that only date old guys.
CarrieT Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I did for years. In my late teens, it was men close to and just over 40. In my 20s, I was attracted to men in their 50s and during my 30s and 40s, I definitely dated men in their 60s. I was never after money (and often turned it down). I loved the maturity and elegance that came with older men; the in depth intellectual conversations I could have and the lack of game-playing. Just before my current BF, I was head-over with a guy who was 60. He didn't look it, act it, and if he hadn't told me, I would have thought him closer to my age (late 40s).
MrCastle Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I did for years. In my late teens, it was men close to and just over 40. I loved the maturity and elegance that came with older men "maturity" and "elegance" aren't exactly words i'd use to describe men in their 40's who date teenagers. 3
CarrieT Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 "maturity" and "elegance" aren't exactly words i'd use to describe men in their 40's who date teenagers. Probably not, but as a teenager, it is what it seemed to ME. In my early 20s, one man I dated was a judge. It was never a sexual relationship - but he was a polio survivor who had to walk with braces and crutches and he was the first man to take me to an opera. We talked at length about art and literature and things of culture that interested me; things that my fellow 20-year-olds had no interest in. I sought out men like that. Yes, I had sex with some but for many, it was a mentoring of sorts. I didn't care that they were into for sex at the time. I was getting just as much out of the relationship in the broadening of my cultural horizons, which was important to me.
FitChick Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 A 31yo local (Salinas) TV anchor married a 66yo former mayor of Carmel, better known for his roles in 'Dirty Harry' and other movies, and they've been married since 1996 and have one child. He was married for 31 years to his first wife. Of course he constantly cheated on his first wife, even though she supported him when he was a struggling actor. He cheated on his various girlfriends after his divorce and made a couple of them get abortions. He has many children by many different women. The best that can be said about him is that at least he financially supported all of those kids and paid his exes money so they wouldn't talk to the press. This is all public information. Just wait until after he dies when the real dirt comes out. Not a nice man but a great film director.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Are you planning on working up your nerve to date by the time you're a Granpa yourself? 1
jennisfora Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 i'm in my 30s, oldest i would date though is 45. once you get closer to my parents' age, it just seems wrong. i do tend to go for older though, but, it isn't intentional. last couple serious relationships i have been in the guys were early 40s. i'm 33. i was 28 when i was with a 41 yr old, but my last bf was 40, just turned 40 and flipped out and dumped me. still struggling with that one. but, the older guys seem to be the ones that ask me out. *shrugs*
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 No. I am not interested in dating men in their 60s. When older men hit on me, It makes me feel more like their nurse aid who has to be patient and kind to them then someone who is my equal. 1
lammie Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 No way. I don't think I can even date guys who's 40 right now. I'm mid 30s. Maybe I should, maybe he'll be more grown up, no more childish games. :/
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 What a minute? Didn't already have this same thread? It got locked by William the mod if I remember correctly.
gotye Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 i dated a dude twice my age but he didn't look old and was mega hott it was nice, i wouldn't mind doing it again...
Zed Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Women do it all the time. The most recent examples are Bruce Willis and Alec Baldwin who are flirting with their 60's or right in them. Noone has a problem with their vast age differences, because its pretty normal in this society.
Negative Nancy Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 (edited) My own father isn't even 60 yet, so no, I wouldn't. My guess for why women date significantly older men is economic or power reasons. My aunt has been with a man 13 years her senior - her boss, a very successful man who own his own multi-million dollar company. You don't get to where he is without having a power-hungry and controlling personality, which also spills over into his private manners. She's literally living in a golden cage, and very very unhappy. My other aunt who is 50 is dating a man who is 75. He's probably gonna need long-term care soon and already has a few couple age-related diseases. Everything in life comes with a price. Edited April 9, 2012 by Negative Nancy
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Women do it all the time. The most recent examples are Bruce Willis and Alec Baldwin who are flirting with their 60's or right in them. Noone has a problem with their vast age differences, because its pretty normal in this society. They are rich and famous. That is why they date with vast age differences between them. But for "normal" society..for the rest of us, it is not "normal". Must regular guys..the majority of guys that compromise this website, aren't going to be banging 20 year olds into their 60s. Despite what popular male driven media and porn tells you. 3
FitChick Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 You must be talking about this couple, OP. So charming and sophisticated.
veggirl Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 28 here, and no...absolutely not. 5 yrs above me, max.
Jane2011 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 The only time I liked men "a lot" older than me was when I was between the ages of 16 and 20. Then, I routinely liked men who were 27 to 35. Thereafter and now, I tend to like men who are around the same age as me (within 4 or 5 years). No, I wouldn't date a grandpa...
threebyfate Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Can't recall any time during my single periods I'd date someone my father's age. Now Paul Newman at 50, would be another story! http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/2/24/Paul-Newman-portrait.jpg/469px-Paul-Newman-portrait.jpg
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