momto3boys Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 (edited) my ex wants a divorce after reconciling for 3 months after he kicked me out when i was pregnant. He is getting kicked out of the army, and now he informs me that he is not moving back home (hes 6 hours away). He calls our son every few days. He said he was going to buy our boys easter stuff, but of course never did. At least he hasnt yet. So maybe its just late. I begged him to work things out and he laughed and made me feel an inch big by telling me how horrible i am and how much he is over me. Then i go cold and mean and then he starts being nice and makes me feel bad. im back to NC after being NC for 3 week (we have a son who is old enough to talk, he has never asked about our 5 month old ever, not even when we were together. He didnt come up for his birth, nothing.). Theres a lot of damage he has done to me, and ive finally come to realize he blames everything on me. Years i have made out to be a "b*tch" but really i nagged because he never helped with the kids ever.He started fights over nothing. I dont know how to pick up the pieces from feeling so worthless from him. Where do you begin to pick up the pieces, its been a month. I also found out he was telling a mutual friend he worries who ill date because of the kids, but yet he isnt gonna move home to see the kids, he isnt very involved. Why does he care who is around my kids? im over protective of my kids and he has never had responsibility of the kids other than financially, and never has thought of the kids and whats best for them, i always have. So really he shouldnt even worry about that. Edited April 8, 2012 by momto3boys
Mr Scorpio Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Ouch. It is one thing to deal with the loss, but I can't imagine caring for three children on top of that. Caring for a dog would be pushing it for me, much less one child, double much less three children. Not that it is any of my business, but was your ex sent overseas into combat?
perryb13 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Venting is the best. I've got one friend who's always willing to listen to my problems. Even if she had nothing to say, having someone with a set of ears to hear you with is a great gift.
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