ideas from men plz

[darkmoon]

i have fancied a man for a while but only met him tonite in person in a group i went with tight trousers and no underwear by chance but covered top - another woman liked him - nobody can really know who fancies who, or who doesn't - she chatted to him in the group but i went to sit with him and he asked to come home with me i blurted out "i hardly know you" i said " i bet you're inundated " he was fazed for an answer but we chatted anyway i gave him a psychic reading i know he is not looking for a girlfriend- a bit later that woman who has beeen glowering at me cuz she fancies him too cuddles him i quickly leave before them saying to the group "goodbye everybody see you soon"

 

question - i do not beleive men want a woman who is promiscuos except for if he wants a quick screw (soiled goods) i firmly beleive in no sex til a man proves he's keen, hoping he was being polite to her though she was a bit frumpy, but you never know i think he went for her offer of the screw

>> so what do i do at the next meeting in a few months? or am i a prude? not too good at chatting up at the best of times

Edited April 7, 2012 by darkmoon

[kaylan]

If hes trying to get you home on the first night hes spoken to you in person, Im inclined to believe he put you in his "screw zone". I feel he would of at least tried to get tp know you a little bit if you had a chance at something more than a hook up. Hell, even if you guys slept together on a first date itd be possible that it could lead to more...but because he invited you home with barely any communication before hand, your chances are slim to nil.

 

Let me give you an example:

 

If I meet a girl in the bar or club, and shes cute, and we get to dancing, kissing, and end up sleeping together without much dialogue in between, we dont have the biggest chance of ending up in a relationship. It would appear our interaction is purely physical.

 

Conversely, if I meet a girl in a bar or club, or anywhere else for that matter...and we hang out all night...talking, dancing, talking some more, and getting to know each other some...If we truly clicked, sex would be like icing on top of the cake. Based on our clicking, id be inclined to think we had a shot at things moving forward towards dating and maybe a relationship.

 

So you see, its not really about the sex...its about the connection and dialogue.

[darkmoon]

thank you Kaylan very instructive, i think i'll relax either he thinks i'm nice and will do more about me or he is a player which would hurt me, either way relax see if we jell some more i get other options tbh

[sid3]

i have fancied a man for a while but only met him tonite in person in a group i went with tight trousers and no underwear by chance but covered top - another woman liked him - nobody can really know who fancies who, or who doesn't - she chatted to him in the group but i went to sit with him and he asked to come home with me i blurted out "i hardly know you" i said " i bet you're inundated " he was fazed for an answer but we chatted anyway i gave him a psychic reading i know he is not looking for a girlfriend- a bit later that woman who has beeen glowering at me cuz she fancies him too cuddles him i quickly leave before them saying to the group "goodbye everybody see you soon"

 

question - i do not beleive men want a woman who is promiscuos except for if he wants a quick screw (soiled goods) i firmly beleive in no sex til a man proves he's keen, hoping he was being polite to her though she was a bit frumpy, but you never know i think he went for her offer of the screw

>> so what do i do at the next meeting in a few months? or am i a prude? not too good at chatting up at the best of times

 

How is your lack of wearing panties relevant?

[darkmoon]

How is your lack of wearing panties relevant?

 

you need that spelled out? ok, my pubis and butt in outline were on display which can turn some men on, but praps not you but don't worry some you win some you lose

[carhill]

so what do i do at the next meeting in a few months? or am i a prude? not too good at chatting up at the best of times

 

Read him again and see how it goes. Maybe try a thong next time.

[darkmoon]

Read him again and see how it goes. Maybe try a thong next time.

 

no way! my bare breasts will do fine

[carhill]

So, wearing underwear (a thong) is considered less savory than going naked under one's clothing? Perhaps I misunderstand.

[darkmoon]

Kaylan sorted my head out...thank you...the rest of my answers were fun so thanks all for the tonic

[sid3]

you need that spelled out? ok, my pubis and butt in outline were on display which can turn some men on, but praps not you but don't worry some you win some you lose

 

So how is that relevant to your story. You seem to be a bit slow. I could spell it out for you much more clearly, praps you should pay more attention. So let's start with your first mistake, butt outline and bulging vaj through tight trousers, what is this guy 12. Frumpy may very well have been offering a screw, hey assume whatever makes you feel better. And no, it wasn't becaus your pants were quite tight enough.

 

I'm not worried, my love life is good and my sex life is spectacular, sounds like you're the one who should be worrying.

[darkmoon]

So how is that relevant to your story. You seem to be a bit slow. I could spell it out for you much more clearly, praps you should pay more attention. So let's start with your first mistake, butt outline and bulging vaj through tight trousers, what is this guy 12. Frumpy may very well have been offering a screw, hey assume whatever makes you feel better. And no, it wasn't becaus your pants were quite tight enough.

 

I'm not worried, my love life is good and my sex life is spectacular, sounds like you're the one who should be worrying.

 

i don't think you are adding much to the topic; purposefully unsupportive when LS is all about that so plz don't come back praps we simply have no wavelength so no trolling i mean what's the point of u kicking me down when i felt ok from kaylan? just go plz bye screw your wife perhaps go

Edited April 8, 2012 by darkmoon

[sid3]

i don't think you are adding much to the topic; purposefully unsupportive when LS is all about that so plz don't come back praps we simply have no wavelength so no trolling

 

Trolling, me? Never. I do wish you luck in your pursuit of this man. I'll ask the ladies I see tonite about the tight trousers and no panties tactic. An excellent conversation starter, thanks! Maybe if I ask the right ones they'll let me rub their tits and have a wank or something.

[Tony]

Kaylan sorted my head out...thank you...the rest of my answers were fun so thanks all for the tonic

 

This thread is heading in a bad direction, seeing as you have found the answer you needed, I'm going to lay it to rest to avoid any further/future conflict.