BlazeOfGloryy777 Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 I believe I am falling in love with one of my best friends. She is in a relationship and a few nights ago i finally told her my feelings for her. The outcome was actually good in a way but im struggling with some emotional things that is making this really hard for me. I'm very lonely lately I got rid of all my friends and moved away to a different city just so I can try and live a better life. Anyone have any advice or is willing to talk to me about it? email me at [email protected] if you want. Thanks
Frank13 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Anyone who has been in this situation will tell you to get out as soon as you can. Go no contact. The sooner you do, the sooner you will get over her. Do not try to be friends. Do not try to rationalize that you want to be friends because you will miss her too much. You have two choices 1. Go no contact 2. Try to be her friend and subject yourself to an ever downward spiral of pain, suffering, anguish, and torture. If you go with number 2, things will get worse and worse. You will get jealous and start arguments with her and say hateful things to her when you have no right to feel or do either. Then you will end up losing the friendship but you will look like a psycho, creepy, pathetic man and stalker. This is a no win situation for you.
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