SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 It was tuesday night and the date was saturday. That was going to be discussed on the next conversation if she an effort to say HI before saturday which would have made me call her So you want her to show interest before yall have even had your first date? Both of you don't even know if you like eachother. Come on, listen to what you are saying. LEARN from your exp (as limited as it may be). I have and it's helped a lot. There is a theme with your posts. You come here to vent and not ask for advice IMO. I mainly ask for advice because I want to improve my dating successes. Take the advice and get out there!
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 I am sorry but inquiring minds... You know? What do you mean you will be Busy with the play offs? Are you some kind of vendor or something ? Does it have something to do with your field of work? If not... Do you mean you will be busy watching games? Watching the games, 40 game in 40 nights which leaves little time for dating
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 I assume he means watching the game. PD, this is beyond lame. Many people enjoy sports and still find time to socialize. Clearly, you are always looking for reasons not to go out with women. Please stop pretending that all your "rules" are things reasonable people do and realize that they're probably just ways you avoid actually getting anywhere with dating. If I was already involved then I would work around the NBA schedule but since I'm not dating anyone do you really think I would miss a NBA playoff to meet someone on a 1st date when it's possible she won't call back?? Hell No Now if a female wants to meet me for the 1st time at my place and watch the game with me and makeout during halftime and during the commercials then i'm up for that
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Watching the games, 40 game in 40 nights which leaves little time for dating Umm... I can't wait for the play offs!!! But score center is more than enough for me not to allow my life to resolve around something that is a betterment for me. <3 Boston
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 So you want her to show interest before yall have even had your first date? Both of you don't even know if you like eachother. Come on, listen to what you are saying. LEARN from your exp (as limited as it may be). I have and it's helped a lot. There is a theme with your posts. You come here to vent and not ask for advice IMO. I mainly ask for advice because I want to improve my dating successes. Take the advice and get out there! We already met in November, she spent an hour at my place and we lost contact in January because of her surgery. So I decided to start things back up again and call and ask what she was doing saturday. I did the reaching out so it was up to her to reach back out to me to atleast say HI but nothing so that's why it wasn't a date
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Umm... I can't wait for the play offs!!! But score center is more than enough for me not to allow my life to resolve around something that is a betterment for me. <3 Boston Something that is a betterment for you?
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Something that is a betterment for you? Is not a betterment..... Sorry However different strokes for different folks. The playoffs should be interesting this year - due to the shorter season. Should be good nonetheless.
NXS Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Well I just looked at the calender and my next date won't be until the end of June because I will be busy with the NBA playoffs from April 28th to June 21st So during that time i will try and learn some things on this board so my first date in June can be FUN!! Have you texted your date yet? .....well at least she'll have plenty of time to respond.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Have you texted your date yet? .....well at least she'll have plenty of time to respond. No I deleted her number
SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 We already met in November, she spent an hour at my place and we lost contact in January because of her surgery. So I decided to start things back up again and call and ask what she was doing saturday. I did the reaching out so it was up to her to reach back out to me to atleast say HI but nothing so that's why it wasn't a date You reached out by SUGGESTING a date, you did no make plans, meaing you did not give her a place and time for an OFFICIAL date. I don't understand your logic??? Me: What are you doing saturday night? Her: I don't have anything planned Saturday Me: Ok Cool I can come over to Jersey and we can go out to dinner" Her: Ok sounds like a plan Me: Ok well let's meet at xxx in xxx. I can be there at 7:00 pm, how does that sound? Her: Yeah I can do 7 You: Ok sounds good xxx, I'll see you then (sound enthusiastic), bye bye (or what ever lingo you use to end a call) Now the date is set and 99.9999999999999999999% of women on planet earth will not call or text before hand, SOME may text/call the day of to confirm, notice I wrote SOME. Show up and the odds are very strong she will be there. If not, on to the next one.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 He's 40? I thought he must be beginning 20. I am in my beginnng 20's when it comes to dating because I'm a late bloomer
SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 (edited) And my last response is from a 30 year old man who hasn't been past a 3rd date philly. I'm not ridiculing you or tooting my own horn as I have things to work on too, a la not getting past a 3rd date. But these are the BASICS PD, the basics. Think about your approach and if you truly want to be successful (I think you do) you have to be willing to listen to others and change the way you think. Edited April 8, 2012 by SJC2008 edit
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 ^^^^^^^^^^ And this is from a 30 year old man who hasn't been past a 3rd date philly. I'm not ridiculing you or tooting my own horn as I have things to work on too, a la not getting past a 3rd date. But these are the BASICS PD, the basics. Think about your approach and if you truly want to be successful (I think you do) you have to be willing to listen to others and change the way you think. I was on 5 dates with the same girl last summer but I was posting on this board at that time. And no one on this board gives advice that is useful. No one gives examples just recommendations
William Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Not exactly how I want to spend Easter Sunday, cleaning up posts which have nothing to do with the topic and lobbing grenades at other posters. Let's get back to the topic or I'll be lobbing some grenades of my own. If posters have issues with other posters, the private message system works great. Use it. Thanks!
Author PhillyDude Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Not exactly how I want to spend Easter Sunday, cleaning up posts which have nothing to do with the topic and lobbing grenades at other posters. Let's get back to the topic or I'll be lobbing some grenades of my own. If posters have issues with other posters, the private message system works great. Use it. Thanks! Ok Thanks, I will make sure i do that
Ginger Grant Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Not exactly how I want to spend Easter Sunday, cleaning up posts which have nothing to do with the topic and lobbing grenades at other posters. Let's get back to the topic or I'll be lobbing some grenades of my own. If posters have issues with other posters, the private message system works great. Use it. Thanks! Hi everyone, I'm new here and I'm pleased to find that vulgarity isn't tolerated on this forum. I was starting to worry. Thanks William.
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