BaconBaconBacon Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I really don't know where to begin, so I'm just gonna start talking. Sometimes I feel like when I'm single, I'm happier. I feel carefree and without worry. I almost never feel crazy. And then I meet an amazing guy, like the one I've been with now for almost 9 months. Things are great for a few months, I'm the cool, sly, calm, carefree girl that every guy wants, and then, I start to develop... *feelings*. You know I'm in love with you if I'm trying to spend every day with you, leaving important things of mine at your place to come and "pick them up", snooping through your phone, getting a sting of jealousy when I hear you talk about other girls who think your cute... Trying to control you. I start to become overly sensitive to things you say.. I take things literally. I think that I can "read" you. Whatever that means. I'm so paranoid of losing you, I start to believe I am, and that just makes me furious with you, when you haven't even done anything wrong! Ugh. Even I'm making myself sick saying all of this. I totally lose my cool! What happens to me between the time of fleeting twitterpating and falling madly in love?! I don't know where to even begin to try and stop this madness. I'm afraid by me doing all of this, I'll end up losing him! Completely the last thing I want to do... So uh.. Help!?
infinitestellar Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 Well, first of all it's normal to feel that way. Second, when you guys were first dating he sees you as that girl with that 'cool' you were referring to. Just be yourself, open up to him.
Lobouspo Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 WELCOME TO LS:),..........Sounds like you got a bad case of puppy love. Just be yourself, and identify the triggers that cause feelings of jealousy and insecurity, because you could drive him away. Are you guys exclusive? As trust builds between you two, the jealousy and insecurity should start to wane at some point.
dispatch3d Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 Well that was fun, we should do that again sometime. Not sure how to comment though, this isn't really a real problem? Like happening in real life right now and can be solved with anything. And yeah I noticed if a girl is really hitting on me she generally gets upset with me about 10-20 minutes after she starts....
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