DjinnAgain Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 They were not prostitutes, they were regular women who were struggling college students A prostitute is a woman who accepts money in exchange for sexual favors. If they participated in that, they were prostitutes. I am not passing judgment on them. Just a fact.
RedRobin Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Riiiight...but now put yourself in the shoes of a 32 year old woman. She wants a husband and to have a family. She knows she's 32 and many guys already see her as past her "expiration date". So she might start dating some guy, and to be a "good girl", she doesn't bring up any of that...allowing the RL to flourish and grow. Suddenly it's a year or two later, and she's wondering why her man isn't popping the question yet. When it finally comes into conversation, he simply states that he doesn't want to get married or have a family in his life...or he evades the discussion. Now here she is, 34 years old, and feeling like she just wasted two precious years of her life. She breaks up with her boyfriend, has a mourning/getting over it period...and now has to face the dating world looking even more "expired" in the eyes of men who do want kids. You're again thinking like you're in your 20s with this. You cannot expect women in their 30s to just "hope" he'll want what she wants. They want some idea or not if they want to waste that year or two in a RL. Yes...they won't marry a guy instantly, but they also don't want that "surprise" 1-2 years later that he doesn't want marriage or kids. It's like I told vehrzn in the other topic. When the biological clock is ticking, you're unfortunately under the gun to make something happen by a certain age, or lose your shot altogether. If kids are important to the woman, then she wants to know the guy she gets into a RL with will MOST LIKELY lead to marriage and family. This is partially why I tell you not to rule out single moms. They had a kid or two already, and thus won't feel like they missed out if you and her never have any more. Some even are very burned on marriage (due to the fallout of their own) and thus might just want dating and fun for now. ... and PD, I will add that your competion are men who sincerely want marriage and children with the right woman and are not wishy-washy about getting clear on that either. Smart women know what that looks like and aren't fooled.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 6, 2012 Author Posted April 6, 2012 A prostitute is a woman who accepts money in exchange for sexual favors. If they participated in that, they were prostitutes. I am not passing judgment on them. Just a fact. Wrong, a prostitute is someone who watches the clock when she comes to a man's house My situation involved a female SPENDING THE EVENING with me and being intimate in exchange for a financial gift Prostitutes are for OLD FAT NASTY MEN who can't see that well. I only want to do financial favors for a cute college senior
Anela Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Wrong, a prostitute is someone who watches the clock when she comes to a man's house My situation involved a female SPENDING THE EVENING with me and being intimate in exchange for a financial gift Prostitutes are for OLD FAT NASTY MEN who can't see that well. I only want to do financial favors for a cute college senior It's the same sort of thing. You want to be a sugar daddy, which is really no better.
lso802 Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I only want to do financial favors for a cute college senior Whatever you want to call them. 2
Anela Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 Google "sugar daddy". There are dating sites for that purpose, apparently. I'm now officially disgusted. You just want to pay for a young girl to pleasure you, without the title of "prostitute". 1
Author PhillyDude Posted April 7, 2012 Author Posted April 7, 2012 Google "sugar daddy". There are dating sites for that purpose, apparently. I'm now officially disgusted. You just want to pay for a young girl to pleasure you, without the title of "prostitute". No, I want a ongoing snuggle buddy who will see me twice a month in exchange for gas money bill assitance groceries clothes shopping shoe shopping You would be a "PRETEND RELATIONSHIP"
FitChick Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 Seeking a "plain Jane" type who is cute in the face and thick in the waist and not into BARS or CLUBS. Why not put that on your profile? You'd get a lot of responses. I thought you were unemployed so how are you paying college girls to have sex with you?
xxoo Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 My situation involved a female SPENDING THE EVENING with me and being intimate in exchange for a financial gift Oh, you mean a high end prostitute. Gotcha. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted April 7, 2012 Author Posted April 7, 2012 Why not put that on your profile? You'd get a lot of responses. I thought you were unemployed so how are you paying college girls to have sex with you? The month of March had 5 weeks in it which meant that I had 2 checks to myself and didn't have to pay rent so I had some extra money left off
Author PhillyDude Posted April 7, 2012 Author Posted April 7, 2012 Oh, you mean a high end prostitute. Gotcha. I don't follow
FitChick Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 She means instead of having a "knee trembler" up against the wall in an alley.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 7, 2012 Author Posted April 7, 2012 If you think about it I;m really just reimbursing a girl back for the gas she spent to come see me because most of that $50 is going to go toward gas money So I;m just meeting someone who is a fan of safe adult fun like me and I'm paying for their gas and parking
mesmerized Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 If you think about it I;m really just reimbursing a girl back for the gas she spent to come see me because most of that $50 is going to go toward gas money So I;m just meeting someone who is a fan of safe adult fun like me and I'm paying for their gas and parking Dude you're pathetic! Instead of justifying it just be honest. You know you're not attractive enough to get a girl have sex with you for you so you want to pay her. We get it, you're not the first, you won't be the last. What's all the sugarcoating? 1
Author PhillyDude Posted April 7, 2012 Author Posted April 7, 2012 Dude you're pathetic! Instead of justifying it just be honest. You know you're not attractive enough to get a girl have sex with you for you so you want to pay her. We get it, you're not the first, you won't be the last. What's all the sugarcoating? i'm attractive enough I just don't have any game
mesmerized Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 i'm attractive enough I just don't have any game Not possible. Post pics and I let you know.
gaius Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 Seems like you haven't really bloomed yet if you're coming up with all kind of ways to disqualify the women that might want you. 2
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