avsguy01 Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 I am completely distracted today! Ive been dating my gf for 2 months, i have known her almost 4 months and things have been pretty splendid with us. Last night we went to a concert and her attitude seemed a little different then the whole two months we dated. It actually started two nights ago with an episode about my mom and her. <I had already posted about this.> I was really unclear about what was going on for the past two days with her, and so we really had our first talk about everything thats going on since i felt kinda in the distant with her from these two days. She has been pretty stressed with things that have been going on with her dad, and how she is going to be really busy this summer and practically not able to chill out before college starts again in the fall. So bascially these past two days have hit her full of emotions that have built up and she has just gone into complete chill mode. I was so used to her acting a certain way from the past two months and this recent change the past two days threw me a curve ball, and i had become confused. It even had went through my mind if we were really as close as i thought we were. We had that really good talk last night on the way home and it smoothed everything out. Then something completely surprised me. She said honestly i fell in love with you Sunday night and i really love you. I was like wow. I had never had anyone actually say it with meaning and actually say it to me first. Now i didnt say it back to her just because im not saying it unless i really mean it. I dont know what love is. Ive never been in love. Love actually scares me, cause its a risk you take since you open your heart up to somebody. Now since we have been dating for 2 months and actually known each other for quite sometime, we start to see the little things about each other that are blind when you first start to get to know each other. Its at this time that you start weighing out the not so great things vs. the great things. I think communication is one of the most important things in a relationship and i think we definately have that. Today im a just going crazy! I cant think right at work. I feel completely distracted, cause she is on my mind insanely. I have an unbelievable feeling of butterflys, I want to be with her just to hold her, to feel another kiss, and i think im driving myself crazy thinking about all of this.. At this point i couldnt imagine not being with her. I think im falling in love with her and since i dont know what love is and that ive never been in it before its kinda scary. My emotions are full running. Am i crazy? Im just trying to figure out whats going on.
disguy Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 I think its safe to say that you are in love. I remember the first time i had fallen in love and that was exactly how i felt. Wanting to be with her every waking moment. Rushing home from getting off of work just to be with her. Things like that. Love is all about taking that risk because if you don't, then you will never know and it might be to late. I think your pretty much worried about what's going on. (pertaining to your situation) All you can do is stand by her side with the whole stressful situation. I do think that if you weren't by her side with all this going on that things would be much worse for her.
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