Toxhicide Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I am just looking for a confidence boost before I even start pursing the girl. A quick history on the girl that I am pursuing. A few years ago on the seventh grade I liked her when I saw her. A few months later I found some money in my pocket and gave it to her as a gesture (I think it was a $10 bill). It was very early in the year and it seemed to be forgotten. Later, around April/May we had a field trip. A few weeks later I gave her a note asking for her number with a box for yes and a box for hell no to make it comical. The problem is that I gave it to her and then walked away. Her friend that I was talking to a few weeks prior about it said that she threw it away and it was a no (obviously). I was sad for a very long time, but I got a girlfriend and lost feelings for the girlfriend a month ago so I broke it off with her, but that's another story. Last year I regained feelings for the other girl for a couple months but ignored them, and now they are coming back. I am in the tenth grade now and all prior events with the girl seem irrelevant. If I were to begin talking to her and become friends with her I think it would be behind the both of us and we would start off new (we hadn't talked at all before hand (except she sat next to me all year in science class) which makes me seem even more stupid a few years ago ). One of her friends had a crush on me for a couple months at the end of the eighth grade. I get along with her friends and talk to them. I plan to ask one of the guys in her group of friends if I could start to hang out with them, and eventually I will be hanging out with her along with her friends. From there I will be able to talk to her, but I am not asking for advice on that. This might take a month or so from my beginning of hanging out with her guy friends (by guy friend I mean the guys in her group of friends, you know high school). Do you think I will be able to get her? I don't have competition from what I have seen and I am not ugly at all or socially awkward. What might you have done in my situation, and do you have any advice? Thank you for taking the time to read all of this message.
rickys Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I think, it just your attraction, which comes back towards her. If you think that at eighth grade she liked you then there are chances to get her back..
Author Toxhicide Posted April 6, 2012 Author Posted April 6, 2012 I think, it just your attraction, which comes back towards her. If you think that at eighth grade she liked you then there are chances to get her back.. One of her friends had a crush on me. I was using that as an example to show that I get along with the group well.
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