happythroughout Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Guys, you know an above average or slightly attractive girl. You find out that she's single. You may or may not want to date her. You may or may not just treat her as a friend. But do you think of her as a "loser" if you find out that she's not dating anyone at the moment?
wwwjd Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I wouldn't think that. But I think anyone is really a "loser", just that everyone is different. I'd see it as a great opportunity for myself to step up and meet a new friend. Additionally, I've known many above average looking girls, and it is true that sometimes they are alone because guys ASSUME they are already taken.
veggirl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 So...single now = loser ? Umm never in my life have I thought of someone as a loser solely because they happen to be single. 1
Author happythroughout Posted April 6, 2012 Author Posted April 6, 2012 So...single now = loser ? Umm never in my life have I thought of someone as a loser solely because they happen to be single. For lack of a better word. Some guys I know think there is something off when a girl that is not bad looking is single.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 That's a rather negative tendency I don't think would be very good for one's chances since the person doing the judging is assumed to be single at the moment as well. Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged (or words to that effect).
Necris Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Guys, you know an above average or slightly attractive girl. You find out that she's single. You may or may not want to date her. You may or may not just treat her as a friend. But do you think of her as a "loser" if you find out that she's not dating anyone at the moment? Single and attractive? I would never think of her as loser for that, that would be a little retarded, I personally do not know any guy at all who would think she's a loser. I might just go try to talk to her and hopefully I'm not too much of a loser to her for her to be interested in me.
Necris Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Ironically I would pray for a girl like that whose a "loser", never going to happen though. I've yet to meet a single even slightly above average woman whose been single for any recordable amount of time, even the ones with awful personalities. I think logically, a girl whose an "outcast" or a "loser" (whatever society defines that stuff as) would be ideal, it would give me time to get to know her and vice a versa, maybe fall in love as I would fill the vacuum (no pun intended). But no, even the chicks my age who are misfits don't have any time to settle down and get to know one man very well, you always get a much better looking and wealthier version of "Party Boy" from Jackass dry humping her naked in his bowtie hijacking her in the middle of you trying to find out if you have anything in common. Such is life my friend:(.
USMCHokie Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Girls, you know an above average or slightly attractive guy. You find out that he's single. You may or may not want to date him. You may or may not just treat him as a friend. But do you think of him as a "loser" if you find out that he's not dating anyone at the moment? Riddle me this... 1
darkmoon Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 judging us by if we are taken or not cuts out your chances of getting me/us to stop being single and dating you
Andy_K Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 (edited) Agreed, if a girl I find attractive is single, that doesn't make her a loser, it makes her a target Edited April 6, 2012 by Andy_K 2
paloma22 Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 haha! no hope for us single girls. obviously too ugly/ too big of a loser (and/or both) to get a date! some of these threads just amaze me.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 types of women I consider losers: --unambitious women. --women over 30 living with parents. --single mothers who have never been married. --women who think sex by the 3rd date is too soon. --women on LS who make bitter "I hate all men" threads.
Kamille Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 --women on LS who make bitter "I hate all men" threads. I have my own life to live so I don't spend much time judging people by whether or not they're losers. But I have to say, I agree with the last one, if both genders are included. -- men or women on LS who make bitter "I hate all members of the other gender" threads are losers.
wwwjd Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 But I think anyone is really a "loser", just that everyone is different. erm.... I meant I >> DON'T << think anyone is a loser. can't edit previous days threads?? That sucks!
SadGrl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 People who call others "losers", are losers! Like TerrorMaiden and Oxy Moronovich
january2011 Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Guys, you know an above average or slightly attractive girl. You find out that she's single. You may or may not want to date her. You may or may not just treat her as a friend. But do you think of her as a "loser" if you find out that she's not dating anyone at the moment? You'd rather that she was dating someone? If you like her, isn't it better that she be single and available to date you? Unless you're implying that you prefer to go after girls who already have boyfriends. That's not very honourable.
SadGrl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Only a hot woman, who can't get a date or a guy is a loser.
starla33 Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I wouldn't think that. But I think anyone is really a "loser", just that everyone is different. I'd see it as a great opportunity for myself to step up and meet a new friend. Additionally, I've known many above average looking girls, and it is true that sometimes they are alone because guys ASSUME they are already taken. Agreed! My friends and I are attractive and get hit on non-stop when we go out, but are single because we know what we are looking for. So you are saying we are losers? YOU my dear are a loser for thinking this way.
SadGrl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Agreed! My friends and I are attractive and get hit on non-stop when we go out, but are single because we know what we are looking for. So you are saying we are losers? YOU my dear are a loser for thinking this way. Oh get over your self woman...sheeeeeesh.....
starla33 Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 types of women I consider losers: --unambitious women. --women over 30 living with parents. --single mothers who have never been married. --women who think sex by the 3rd date is too soon. --women on LS who make bitter "I hate all men" threads. Um sex on the 3rd date is too soon if you are looking for a real relationship. Just because someone has morals does not make them a loser.
SadGrl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Oxymoron has no morals or principals, that is clear.
Necris Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 types of women I consider losers: --unambitious women. --women over 30 living with parents. --single mothers who have never been married. --women who think sex by the 3rd date is too soon. --women on LS who make bitter "I hate all men" threads. Sex by the third date, really? I don't know what kind of people you hang out with but having morals shouldn't make that person a loser. Then again you are the same guy who believes its okay for women to cheat on their boyfriends and its okay to have a relationship with a woman who is already in a relationship.
grkBoy Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Guys, you know an above average or slightly attractive girl. You find out that she's single. You may or may not want to date her. You may or may not just treat her as a friend. But do you think of her as a "loser" if you find out that she's not dating anyone at the moment? No. I'd call a woman a "loser" if she willingly destroys her life and/or constantly makes up scapegoat excuses for her own shortcomings. That or she's immature and a drama queen. Whether or not she has a man (or woman if she flies like that) is meaningless.
USMCHokie Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Um sex on the 3rd date is too soon if you are looking for a real relationship. Just because someone has morals does not make them a loser. Just because someone has sex on the 3rd date or even sooner doesn't mean they don't have morals... Different strokes for different folks... 1
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