Bucky Badger Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I have a fraternity formal coming up, and a week ago, she told me how her formal went really crappy because her date was making out with another girl the whole time. I decided to ask her to my formal and she said she would love to go. Since then, she has texted me first twice, and we have casual conversations together. Saturday, we had a casual dinner together that lasted for over an hour and we just talked. It was great! We have some mutual friends, and she has told them that I am a "super cool guy" and that I am a "really nice guy." I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. She did text me first on Friday and Saturday, and then I texted her on Monday and she seemed quite distant, not wanting to talk or anything. It is now Thursday and I have not texted or spoken with her since Monday. What should I do? I REALLY like her but I'm not sure how to approach this. THANKS!!! 1
SSexySSadie Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Well, what's wrong with being friends, at least for now? If you really like her don't scare her away by getting too serious too soon. Take her to your formal and have a great time, she seems to like you, so just BE you....just let it happen. Good luck;)
Author Bucky Badger Posted April 6, 2012 Author Posted April 6, 2012 I just get the feeling that she doesn't like me. I texted her yesterday (for the first time in like 3 days) and we texted for a few minutes, and then she didn't text me back at all randomly and hasn't texted back since then, which is now a full day almost. I am trying to decipher what this all is but I can't by myself.
dasein Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Stop with the texts. That's what her GFs are for. If the formal is soon, be politely sexually forward and make physical moves on her. If she accpepts, or is at least enthusiastic, she likes you. If she doesn't, she doesn't. Try to limit contacts with women to asking them out and mostly face to face until you are sure she is worth your time (quality and responsive to you) and you are on the same page.
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