If a guy is happy with his current relationship, will he want to contact his ex?

[daniellasugar]

Hi all,

Do you think if a guy is happy with his current relationship, he will ask his ex for sex/contact her often?

 

 

 

I know this is a stupid question, but please consider the situation that my friend faces below:

 

 

A guy had a long-distance girlfriend (only temporary LDR), A, but halfway he couldn’t stand all the stress and loneliness that LDR brings, so he flirted with a girl at his place, B. He eventually asked her to be his girl (cheating on A, who suspects but doesn’t know for sure, since she’s not there). A found out and confronted the guy, to which he replied that he’s confused about what he wants and he feels too lonely without her (they only meet once a month), as well as feeling stressed out about late-night calls. She asked for break up “until she came back, which is in 1 year, and he gets his confused feelings right and they will both decide whether to get back together or not.”

 

 

This didn’t work as well for them as they had hoped because the feeling is still there and they often end up chatting like couples and as if nothing is happening. The guy soon found out that things are not perfect between B and him, but he didn’t give up yet, although he hinted to A that he thinks B and him is only short-term. Anyway after a while the guy started to ask A out, which she couldn’t do very frequently. He said he misses her and wants to hold her, as well as do the heavier stuff (not sex) if she agrees. He also swears that he never touch B as he doesn’t want to hurt her by touching her and leaving her after that (he still believes they’re short term), and he only got together with B because he feels lonely and confused and finds companionship and comfort in B. A doesn’t trust him, so she didn’t agree to heavy stuff while seeing him, but they have often talked about sex stuff and play imagination games together while on the phone and social chat sites. He also often texts A and tell her where he is at, as if she's still his girlfriend.

 

 

In your opinion, if a guy is happy with the physical aspect of his relationship, will he still go back to his ex and ask for physical contact? Can anyone please shade a light on what’s going on? The guy is someone I know, and he’s a caring and sensitive person, not those heartbreakers or playboys.

[veggirl]

Caring and sensitive? More like immature and selfish.

 

Well, if you were happy in a relationship, would YOU go crawling back to your ex? No. So why would it be different for a guy? This jerk is just incapable of being alone and clearly can't be faithful to anyone. How inappropriate--all of it.

[BlazeOfGloryy777]

If i was in a relationship that i was happy with and i had feelings for the girl i would not want to go running back to my ex. Its so ****ed when people want to do that. So thats how i feel.