Warrior Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 That guy is an as*hole. And you are as*hole also if you think this is funny... well yeah probably if you are a kid. This is so bad I can't believe what I've just heard. 2
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Wow:( Awful; what an immature guy to humiliate her like this for all to hear. Shows a lot about his character. Yes, she was with that other fellow, but it should have been discussed privately between the two of them. How humilating===what he did to her overshadows her necking with some guy. They must be in high school; he sure acts like it. And to say that this funny, is wrong==she is in tears. Real funny:sick: 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 She cheated on him, all bets are off. He should have been a man and told her face to face. He is not a mature individual and seemed really proud of himself that he made her cry. On the air for all to hear, mind you. He should have simply put her stuff to the curb if he felt all bets are off. They sound like a couple of kids; kids should be dating, not shacking up. I hope he doesn't think he will get another chance with this one. He made an ass out of himself--he won't be seeing much action if a lot of female peers heard this, knowing what kind of guy he is when he's been wronged. He is a tool. 2
EgoJoe Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 He should have been a man and told her face to face. He is not a mature individual and seemed really proud of himself that he made her cry. On the air for all to hear, mind you. He should have simply put her stuff to the curb if he felt all bets are off. They sound like a couple of kids; kids should be dating, not shacking up. I hope he doesn't think he will get another chance with this one. He made an ass out of himself--he won't be seeing much action if a lot of female peers heard this, knowing what kind of guy he is when he's been wronged. He is a tool. I have bolded the parts of your post that illustrate your expectational bias. He "should" take it on the chin and smile? No wonder the glass ceiling is real.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 I have bolded the parts of your post that illustrate your expectational bias. He "should" take it on the chin and smile? No wonder the glass ceiling is real. Where did I post that he should take it on the chin and smile? He made himself look like a huge jerk. Hope she and Eric are happy together.
EgoJoe Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 he won't be seeing much action if a lot of female peers heard this, knowing what kind of guy he is when he's been wronged. You're clearly biased and obviously sexist. I'd bet money that you've justified deplorable acts because they "deserved it" too.
Woggle Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Let's be honest if the genders were reversed would people still be saying it was wrong? This is an example of the subtle misandry I talk about. 1
CarrieT Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Let's be honest if the genders were reversed would people still be saying it was wrong? This is an example of the subtle misandry I talk about. Many of us would still be saying that it is wrong, regardless of genders, Woggle. The whole thing is wrong on so many levels; that she cheated, that he confronted her in public... Two wrongs do not make it right OR humorous. Don't start down the slippery slope of misandry again. You have been doing so well! 2
Woggle Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Many of us would still be saying that it is wrong, regardless of genders, Woggle. The whole thing is wrong on so many levels; that she cheated, that he confronted her in public... Two wrongs do not make it right OR humorous. Don't start down the slippery slope of misandry again. You have been doing so well! I am not trying to go down that slope but let's be honest. There would be a whole lot of you go girl comments. Maybe I am wrong but I don't think I am.
CarrieT Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 I am not trying to go down that slope but let's be honest. There would be a whole lot of you go girl comments. Maybe I am wrong but I don't think I am. I am being honest and I think you are wrong. 1
veggirl Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Let's be honest if the genders were reversed would people still be saying it was wrong? This is an example of the subtle misandry I talk about. FFS, Woggle! Do you have to do this in EVERY damn thread? God. :rolleyes: We get it! and *what* is an example of the "subtle misandry"? Where?! You are so crazy. 1
Woggle Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 FFS, Woggle! Do you have to do this in EVERY damn thread? God. :rolleyes: We get it! and *what* is an example of the "subtle misandry"? Where?! You are so crazy. The subtle misandry is because this guy gets called a jerk after being less than graceful after being betrayed while a woman who did the same thing would get a whole bunch of you go girl comments.
veggirl Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Right. And where are you getting the idea that there would be "you go girl" comments. For the record, IMO the cheating chick got what was coming to her. You are just making up, hoping, that if the roles were reversed girls would be saying you go girl. Just cause it proves your point. 2
Woggle Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Right. And where are you getting the idea that there would be "you go girl" comments. For the record, IMO the cheating chick got what was coming to her. You are just making up, hoping, that if the roles were reversed girls would be saying you go girl. Just cause it proves your point. You said she got what was coming to her but there are other comments acting as if she is the victim.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 You're clearly biased and obviously sexist. I'd bet money that you've justified deplorable acts because they "deserved it" too. You are clearly and obviously judgmental. I am not basing my feelings on gender, I am basing my feelings on how this guy acted and he clearly acted in a douchebaggery kind of way. What facts do you base you statement on, me 'justifying deplorable acts because they 'deserved it'"? You are being unkind.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Let's be honest if the genders were reversed would people still be saying it was wrong? This is an example of the subtle misandry I talk about. I would absolutely say it was wrong. Humilating anyone that way is wrong and quite immature. He maybe have been cheated on, but why not discuss that with her in private; they have been together for years. Totally not understanding why a person male or female would do that to another person. They make themselves out to be a chump.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Right. And where are you getting the idea that there would be "you go girl" comments. For the record, IMO the cheating chick got what was coming to her. You are just making up, hoping, that if the roles were reversed girls would be saying you go girl. Just cause it proves your point. Rolling eyes with you. I can't speak for other ladies, but I can't imagine my saying 'you go girl' if I heard a fellow in tears and in distress because he was humiliated. Call it compassion, I guess. The gal was wrong in betraying her man's trust, very wrong, but do two wrongs make a right? Just wondering....I felt she was being bullied in a way with the dj and sidekick. They were just as bad for encouraging it. I feel sorry for the man who was cheated on===but I ask you....did he sound hurt? He sounded like a guy on a mission to degrade and humiliate someone. As a result, he made HIMSELF look like a giant tool. He burned his bridges, it seems, too. I can't imagine her wanting to fix this with him after that. it was a truly creepy thing for him to do. And if the genders were reversed, equally creepy and quite sad.
NeverDated Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I am not trying to go down that slope but let's be honest. There would be a whole lot of you go girl comments. Maybe I am wrong but I don't think I am. I'll be the dissenting lady and agree with this!! I belong to a mother's forum elsewhere on the intertubez and lemme tell ya...when one lady finds out her significant other is cheating, it gets nasty. There are a few women in there who make it their career to become novice CIA agents, track down the "other woman" and start calling her. Not saying it's right. For the most part I thought it was an immature, childish, purposefully hurtful and overall sadistic event. But if it were a woman doing it to a man, [most] people wouldn't be nearly as disgusted.
Woggle Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 I'll be the dissenting lady and agree with this!! I belong to a mother's forum elsewhere on the intertubez and lemme tell ya...when one lady finds out her significant other is cheating, it gets nasty. There are a few women in there who make it their career to become novice CIA agents, track down the "other woman" and start calling her. Not saying it's right. For the most part I thought it was an immature, childish, purposefully hurtful and overall sadistic event. But if it were a woman doing it to a man, [most] people wouldn't be nearly as disgusted. Thank you. I don't know why so many people deny this.
CarrieT Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 a woman who did the same thing would get a whole bunch of you go girl comments. Please provide concrete examples of this statement. Please provide a similar situation where you believe this has happened. I dare you...
Pyro Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 chances are the whole thing was scripted and performed by professionals. It is all about ratings. If it is real, then yes what she did is completely wrong but he isn't that much better with how he handled it. 1
EgoJoe Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 You are clearly and obviously judgmental. I am not basing my feelings on gender, I am basing my feelings on how this guy acted and he clearly acted in a douchebaggery kind of way. What facts do you base you statement on, me 'justifying deplorable acts because they 'deserved it'"? You are being unkind. In my opinion, objectivity exists outside of judgment. Simultaneously, I am not "basing feelings". I am drawing conclusions based off of thoughts spawned by the data available. When someone does what she did, she has not earned extra consideration. Was it worth it? Not to me. But, her feelings are not my or her Ex's responsibility and when you lie to someone you are attempting to enslave their mind and deny them free will.
veggirl Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Thank you. I don't know why so many people deny this. Shocking. You latch onto the one female who agrees with you and dismiss the MANY who don't. Doesn't your wife take issue with your hatred for women? 2
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