raurp2f Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 term gf or not. We've been together for about 6 years. She broke it off about 6 months after we started dating and we shortly got back together and have been ever since. We moved in together about a year after that, so we've lived together 4 or 5 years. We've had sex about 5 times in that entire time. I just don't feel that connected to her anymore. We're constantly in opposite rooms. Maybe one night a week we'll watch a movie together, but otherwise it's always opposite rooms all night long. I care for her a lot and don't want ot hurt her feelings, however I'm just not that happy. We don't really do much togethere for hobbies. I just don't know if I could ever marry her. The lack of intimacy is a big problem. For valentines I took her to NYC to see if we could get that spark and she didn't even get me any sort of gift back. Not even a small thing like a card. I'm not sure what to do! Thanks
HurtZ Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 I'm not sure what to do! Thanks If you are asking the question, you probably already know the answer. However, You've only had sex 4 times in 5 years? That's less than once a year! And you are living basically in seperate rooms, you have no intimacy, and she doesn't appreciate you enough to even be grateful that you are making efforts to rekindle the spark with her. Dump her now so you don't waste any more time in your life. You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy and fufills you on all levels, it sounds like you both have grown into more of a just friends type of situation. Maybe in time you can become friends again, but you should move out and seek greener pastures IMHO.
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