krissy1989f Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Long story short I had been hanging out/hooking up with a guy for 6 months...i liked him ALOT but it wasnt going anywhere....i ended up "ruining" it by being with someone else....but in reality it probably wouldnt of went anywhere anyways...we had continued to talk a little bit after he stopped being mad about what i did but still it was going nowhere....so i finally cut off contact and told him to leave me alone.....but....i miss him....alot....do i tell him? or just stick it out and pretend to be ok?
january2011 Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 No, don't tell him. Stick it out and pretend to be okay. You mention that it, "wasn't going anywhere, " three times in your short post. Ride out the feelings and continue with NC.
Mr Scorpio Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 What Jan said. If it "wasn't going anywhere" then I don't think that you should be going anywhere near "it". Stick with NC and let the feelings subside.
perryb13 Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 If you tell him that you miss him, it could just end up resetting the whole situation and then you might have to deal with all of the coping all over again. Trust me on that one.
veggirl Posted April 7, 2012 Posted April 7, 2012 Dont tell him Krissy. Keep with NC!! If you tell him, it will lead into a FWB situation because he'll know that you will sleep with him. I remember your posts. I'm glad that you told him to leave you alone. You didn't "ruin" anything, there was nothing truly there to ruin.
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