Say Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 We broke up 5 months ago(were together for 16 months) for various reasons. I was depressed, we never went out, she was bored and looking for a way out. This guy was obsessed with her, and while we were trying to fix our relationship he kept interfering. She ended up leaving me for him, despite all my warnings that he was just a manipulative emotionally unstable guy. They lasted about a month. A month after that, we started talking again. She told me she started to miss me and saw what it was like without me, and we got back together mutually. We discussed our problems and basically revived the relationship tenfold. We've been together for 3 months. These past few weeks have been amazing, its just... since monday i have been feeling this vibe i just can't shake. She was sick lately, so she was a week behind in her work. She's the kind of girl who freaks out when she gets a B. On monday she mentioned a band, and jokingly i said 'ewww'. She called me a jerk and told me to stop acting rude and hung up on me. I was stunned. Later she apologized, and said she's just been feeling a little depressed about school and her lack of friends. Now, my biggest worry? When we broke up in november, it was after a huge convention that we both went to together. A week or so before, we got into an argument about her being upset for not having friends. I sold a few precious things to afford to go to that convention. Also, during this time i had been watching a show called raising hope. Now, there is another huge convention this weekend. We just got into an argument about her friends. I was considering selling some precious things. Season 2 of raising hope came out and i have been watching it. Its a sign D: Anyways, lately she hasn't been texting me too much. She was extremely busy with her work and getting ready for the convention yesterday, and we had plans to hang out. When i asked if i should come, it took her an hour and a half to reply saying she felt she was really busy tonight and it'd be a bad idea. I get home and pop on facebook and there is a status by her friend saying "Procrastinating with _______" So, that means in the hour and a half i was waiting for her to reply she was talking to her friends. She normally texts me all day, yet today i didn't hear from her until 11 saying she was really really busy all day. I mean, normally i can look past this and cut her some slack. Its just poor timing and the fact that this is all happening in a short time span is bothering me. I mean, the positives are still there. She always asks me to hang out, she calls me on skype at night and we fall asleep with it on, she constantly says i love you and is very affectionate. However, i don't read too much into the affectionate stuff, because up until the moment we broke up previously she was affectionate, but it was fake. The major thing that is different between then and now, though is our relationship. We get along better, we talk more, our old issues are gone and we actually go out and do things together.
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