Toxhicide Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 I felt like making this thread because I feel very good right now. I had recently broken up with my girlfriend (last Tuesday) but it took me three weeks to do it which was a very sad and painful process and I still feel a little bad about it, but you can go research that thread on your own. Back on topic. I feel great right now. A feeling that I have not had in years is back in my heart for the same girl that I fell for in the seventh grade. I am in tenth now. For a quick history, I liked her when I first say her back then. A few months later, late September, I gave her some money I found in my pocket as a kind gesture. I know how ridiculous that was. The feelings died down a bit 'til the end of the year around a DC field trip. After the field trip, I consulted my mother and she told me to pass her a note that asked for her number with a box for yes and a box for "hell no" to make it comical. I agreed, and a few weeks before the end of school I did so. The only problem was that I gave it to her at the end of class and walked away. I remember looking right at her as I let the classroom... the next day her friend was talking to her (I was talking to her friend a few weeks 'til I did the note and I asked what she said), and she said that she threw the note away and that it was a no. Everything seems ridiculous on my behalf and logical on hers, but at that time it was devastating to me. Could not really like any other girl for a year and a half after that. End of ninth grade she was in my gym class and I felt nervous around her, not in a just nervous way. So, history aside, I lost feelings for my girlfriend (irrelevant to this) and they have their full sight on this girl from three years ago. I get along with the friends of this girl quite well. One of the girls she hangs out with had a crush on me at the end of the 8th grade, and the others I have had in my classes and I talk to them periodically. Her guy friends, who I do not see outside of school (except when I was quite younger) I also get along with well. My idea was to ask one of her guy friends (by guy friends I mean the guys in the group of people she hangs out with) if I could hang out with him and his friends that weekend. I might not be with the group of girls, but that becoming routine is key. Eventually I will hang out with the girls as well as they are all a group, which I will be able to talk to the girl that I like. From there I just get to know her well, get her to like me, ask for her number, etc, then ask her on a date sometime. I am quite certain I have no competition to get the girl. From what I can recall I have never heard of her being in a relationship, and if she was it would not have been too long. She is not ugly, though, I find her beautiful. Just to say, I am not ugly at all either. My last girlfriend is very pretty (and I still text her but obviously not as much, 80% of our texting traffic is down). I am on Spring Break right now and plan to ask to hang out next week (in about 8 to 10 days from now). Nevermind the breakup thing, I've already covered it and it is not affecting me. What are your opinions about all of this? Many of you have passed high school, so what might you girls do if a new guy came into your group of friends and started talking to you? What might you guys have done if you were me? Do you have any advice?
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