zanzi Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 this guy has both me and this other girl overseas. he is playing with me like Im a puppet. He uses me for sex and whenever he invites me over I always say yes. If Im not around him I just cry and miss him, but he is awful. He is using me and he is using her and I cant stop caring for him. help me, how do I get over him without it hurting so much that I want to scream? I need to get him out of my life! I want someone who loves me, not a nasty cheater. Help me.
jennisfora Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 you need to help yourself and cut the strings, you are not a puppet, you have free will. you know this is unhealthy. seek counselling if you feel you can't do this on your own. you are right, you do deserve someone who loves you, and only you. this guy is taking advantage of you, and you know it. so, stop letting him. have some pride, and dignity, and don't respond to him, delete his info, block his number, de friend him on facebook. he is a user. sorry if this is harsh, but knowledge is power, but only if you use it, and i know you know what you need to do. *hugs* 1
shayla Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 The only one that can stop this is you. You have to know all the way to your soul that you deserve better than this. And you have to do what you have to do to stop feeling pain. It will hurt at first, but you will look back later and wonder why on earth you didn't get rid of him sooner. Care for yourself more than anyone else, especially him. Love yourself enough to stop this right now. Next time that guy calls you, tell him to kick rocks and hang up. No other explanation necessary, he knows what he's doing is foul.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 this guy has both me and this other girl overseas. he is playing with me like Im a puppet. He uses me for sex and whenever he invites me over I always say yes. If Im not around him I just cry and miss him, but he is awful. He is using me and he is using her and I cant stop caring for him. help me, how do I get over him without it hurting so much that I want to scream? I need to get him out of my life! I want someone who loves me, not a nasty cheater. Help me. You are his puppet because you are allowing it. he calls, you go running. Make yourself unavailable and disappear from his life. Get yourself tested; you don't know how many others he's sleeping with. What exactly do you miss about this *******?
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