xztjohn Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 (edited) broke up with my girl for 6 months now. annoyed with this one girl who i have been hanging out with. heres an example, yesterday i was like lets go swimming tomorriw she said shes down. then time comes shes like i have to go to this class iforgot! then she says shes tired. then she texts me she will come for a little bit. she then says i gotta teach this guy the body roll lol lol lol! i dont get it. i think im friend zoned. she has a history of doing this. makes me miss my ex a little. im thinking bout ignoring her. what u guys think? or this girl dumb? Edited April 5, 2012 by xztjohn
rdb Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 OP, don't take this the wrong way, but if anyone is dumb here it is you. Don't read into an event too much. Be cool. Just don't invest so much in one person until they show you they are worth investing in. If you like her you should chase her. But chase doesnt mean follow around like a lost puppy. If someone isnt interested they will let you know. But don't ruin any chance you might have by overblowing her not being able to go swimming. I'm pretty sure the world isnt gonna end tomorrow and plenty of more days for you two to do stuff together will come. Have some confidence. Don't ask yourself if you've been friendzoned! The truth will sort itself out soon enough, but until you know you should go for it. Worst case scenario: you say "you're right we are great as friends" and find another girl to go swimming with. And if you aren't over your ex you need to leave this new girl alone. That is a separate issue tho.
rAFC Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 i think im friend zoned. As you think, so shall you become.
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