James667 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 After being together for 2 months, my girlfriend left me. The main reason (from what I can tell) is that despite the great times we had, she feels that she wasn't ready for a relationship. She has her own issues that she seeks counseling for, and I guess she thought that starting this relationship would help her work with those issues. Now, she tells me she is sorry I was her shoulder to cry on (which really wasn't true), sorry that I was 'subjected' to her ups and downs, and she feels that she has to grow as a person before she can embrace having someone in her life like that. The problem is that to me she is this incredible angel, and I do love her. We've known each other for about a year. Being with her has always made me happy, and I have told her that. When we broke up a few days ago, I was in denial, but I realized the best option I had was to agree with her decision, as anything else would have just pushed her farther away. We are still friends, but naturally I want that to change. My question is what should I do now? Should I avoid contact with her for a week or so? Should I ask her if she wants to hang out (as friends). Should I give her time and hope she'll rethink her decision? Or do I have to let this crush me, and move on to another girl? Thanks.
Philosoraptor Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Right now just keep your distance and work on yourself. You can not have a friendship with someone when you have feelings that are of more than a friend.
marqueemoon4 Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 If you're getting heartache and indecision from her after two months then maybe you need to realize she's not right for you and move on. Maybe you're not ready for a r/l either? Work on you, give her space, be kind, and you'll be straight.
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