Bucky Badger Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I have a fraternity formal coming up, and a week ago, she told me how her formal went really crappy because her date was making out with another girl the whole time. I decided to ask her to my formal and she said she would love to go. Since then, she texts me and we have casual conversations together. Yesterday, we had a casual dinner together that lasted for over an hour and we just talked. It was great! We have some mutual friends, and she has told them that I am a "super cool guy" and that I am a "really nice guy." I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. I would REALLY like to ask her out after the formal (we are staying overnight in a hotel) when we are driving back or something, but I am really nervous of the result. Is there any chance she will like me? Any help would be great!! THANKS!!!
Philosoraptor Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Just take a leap because it doesn't sound like she's not interested. Let her know that you've really enjoyed getting to know her and you'd like to take her out on a real date.
Pierre Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I have a fraternity formal coming up, and a week ago, she told me how her formal went really crappy because her date was making out with another girl the whole time. I decided to ask her to my formal and she said she would love to go. Since then, she texts me and we have casual conversations together. Yesterday, we had a casual dinner together that lasted for over an hour and we just talked. It was great! We have some mutual friends, and she has told them that I am a "super cool guy" and that I am a "really nice guy." I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. I would REALLY like to ask her out after the formal (we are staying overnight in a hotel) when we are driving back or something, but I am really nervous of the result. Is there any chance she will like me? Any help would be great!! THANKS!!! It is obvious that you like her and she knows you like her. Just tell her you are crazy about her and go out with her. Why are you waiting? She is giving you signals and she expects a not so subtle answer to her signals.
Author Bucky Badger Posted April 5, 2012 Author Posted April 5, 2012 I feel that she is not interested though. I do believe she likes me as a friend, but I don't see her liking as anything more at this current time. Is that true? She did text me first on Friday and Saturday, and then I texted her on Monday and she seemed quite distant, not wanting to talk or anything. It is now Thursday and I have not texted or spoken with her since Monday. What should I do? I REALLY like her but I'm not sure how to approach this.
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