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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex, sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her or girl is sitting nearby and pulls off her jacket and my mind starts telling me to smell her hair and lick her skin for whatever reason, except surprisingly when I'm asleep I never have sex dreams or anything like that. Anyway this can be annoying plus I'm Christian and for me just having lustful thoughts is a sin. Do you ever feel like this?

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gaius Established Member

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Yes but I never say it. People would think I'm weird.

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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex,

But for some reason?

 

Buddy, the fact that you are a guy is the reason you're always thinking about sex.

sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her or girl is sitting nearby and pulls off her jacket and my mind starts telling me to smell her hair and lick her skin for whatever reason, except surprisingly when I'm asleep I never have sex dreams or anything like that. Anyway this can be annoying plus I'm Christian and for me just having lustful thoughts is a sin. Do you ever feel like this?

That's something you are going to have to figure out how to deal with.

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I'ma christian (or try hard to be most of the time) and deal with the same thing, but sex is a large part of our life. Your BODY doesn't care what the bible says about anything. :)

Our world is FILLED constantly with IN YER FACE SEX from movies, songs, even the design of many women's clothes.... plus they way they are all subliminally programmed to act by simply living today.

You probably can't beat it, so just keep it in check, pray about it.

Get a girlfriend, or get married.

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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex, sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her or girl is sitting nearby and pulls off her jacket and my mind starts telling me to smell her hair and lick her skin for whatever reason, except surprisingly when I'm asleep I never have sex dreams or anything like that. Anyway this can be annoying plus I'm Christian and for me just having lustful thoughts is a sin. Do you ever feel like this?

 

That sounds terrible! I recommend you schedule a doctor's appointment immediately. If they can't get you in soon, you might want to consider heading into the ER to get checked out...

 

Really though, it sounds like you're a typical high school/college aged male. Take it as a sign that you have a healthy hormonal profile.

 

As far as combating it, your options are basically to 1) have sex 2) have a wank sesh or 3) channel your pent up energy into physically demanding activities such as long runs, lifting weights, boxing, digging yourself a swimming pool for this summer, etc.

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Then again my mind loves to mess with me I could be driving down the street and I'll have thoughts about killing myself and killing others despite actually not truly wanting to do those things. Some of the most psycho sickest things come from my mind for some reason. So I definitely have a problem with thought control somehow I need to learn the art of controlling my own thoughts.

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Two things:

When you go on a diet, and you decide you're going to cut out carbs, and modify your intake - all you can think about is food.

food, food food.

your next meal, what you can eat, what you can't eat, what you're going to have, what you'll cook, what you can buy, what's off the menu....

Same with sex.

If you actively determine that for some reason, sex is off the menu - then you obsess.....

 

As to what your mind does... you and your mind are inseparable.

your mind doesn't think about these things - YOU think about these things.

your mind is not a third person or separate entity.

It's you, doing the thinking.

 

how old are you, BTW?

 

consider taking up Meditation....

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for some reason I'm always thinking about sex, sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her

 

There are around 3 billion of us out there suffering from the same problem. It is literally impossible for me to look at a girl of suitable age without considering whether I think she's hot or not, and if so, what she might look like naked.

 

There are probably a few girls out there with a similar problem too.

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I never feel like that. I'm not a Chistian. To me it's just sex, sex and more sex. And, I like it. :)

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Congratulations, you are male :laugh:.

 

Seriously, I walk down the street having to hide my boner most days. I think about 80% of the women I walk past on the street, I've already imagined them in 10+ positions in the 3-4 seconds I've looked at them. I might be a gentleman on the outside.........

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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex,

 

Congratulations on becoming a teenager.

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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex, sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her or girl is sitting nearby and pulls off her jacket and my mind starts telling me to smell her hair and lick her skin for whatever reason, except surprisingly when I'm asleep I never have sex dreams or anything like that. Anyway this can be annoying plus I'm Christian and for me just having lustful thoughts is a sin. Do you ever feel like this?

 

what guy doesn't think about sex?

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I just wish I knew how to control my thoughts, but alas I can't seem to do it my thoughts are just as free and as crazy as possible (including thoughts like suicide, rape, murder, etc.) Even right now as I type this I'm thinking about sex. From a religious perspective thinking about having sex with every woman I see makes me feel like a terrible christian.

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It's likely because you're young and are at that age where guys are supposed to think about sex constantly.

 

Some days I am so busy I don't think about it at all. On more relaxed days, though, I think about it once or twice.

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I think it's natural to think about sex a lot, especially when you are young and hormonal.

 

I think you might be thinking about it more because you have no outlet and see sex as a sin. This might mean you are repressing your urges and so they are coming out more and more.

 

You need to find a way to make peace with your natural urges and understand that they do not make you a bad person.

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I'm a guy but for some reason I'm always thinking about sex, sex seems to be on my brain all day every day, girl says hi and my brain instantly starts thinking about having sex with her or girl is sitting nearby and pulls off her jacket and my mind starts telling me to smell her hair and lick her skin for whatever reason, except surprisingly when I'm asleep I never have sex dreams or anything like that. Anyway this can be annoying plus I'm Christian and for me just having lustful thoughts is a sin. Do you ever feel like this?

Nope I've never felt like this.

 

I don't think your sexual thoughts are something to be concerned about as a biological issue however with the Christianity it's a religious issue,

 

Then again my mind loves to mess with me I could be driving down the street and I'll have thoughts about killing myself and killing others despite actually not truly wanting to do those things. Some of the most psycho sickest things come from my mind for some reason. So I definitely have a problem with thought control somehow I need to learn the art of controlling my own thoughts.

To me this is something to be concerned about.

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I really want to laugh when bitches on forums like this tell men "stop thinking about women as sexual objects, they're PEOPLE!".

So women are bitches for telling men to think of women as people not sexual objects? Or is telling men to think of women as people not sexual objects something bitches tend to do?

 

How about you release the pressure valve first, something that in nature was never supposed to be an issue (this is the first time in history where men don't just point at a woman they want and take her to the bedroom, even prostitution is illegal in this stupid country) and THEN we can talk like people.

So women should be responsible for men's attraction and dress in a manner that won't cause men to be attracted or prostitution should be legal if they want to be considered/treated like/thought of as people?

 

Perhaps it's best suited for you go to a country you don't find stupid where prostitution is legal or to a country where women are completely covered up.

 

:sick: for the rape implication with the first time in history. Or does this women that men just point at and take to the bedroom have the ability to say no and not go to the bedroom? I'm actually intrigued that not many more guys liked your post with that implication.

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I just wish I knew how to control my thoughts, but alas I can't seem to do it my thoughts are just as free and as crazy as possible (including thoughts like suicide, rape, murder, etc.) Even right now as I type this I'm thinking about sex. From a religious perspective thinking about having sex with every woman I see makes me feel like a terrible christian.

 

well then you need a professional psychologist or psychiatrist to help you get a handle on things, because you are your mind. it's you thinking these things, not a third-person entity. you and your mind, are the same thing.

and if you honestly don't see that, then you really do need to see someone.

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There is a road near my house, which my friends jokingly refer to as the 'Road of Death'.

 

This is because it's the road that leads from the university down to most of the student housing, and in summer time it is filled with hot 18-20 year old girls in skimpy/tight summer outfits. It is only a matter of time before a driver gets too distracted and causes a fatality :laugh:

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