dotty3168 Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 I'm a widow of three yrs which is heartbreaking enoug. I decided to date and finally met someone I realy liked. He seemed to really like me He told me he was separated and thought divorce would go through soon. We wenk out for several weeks and he acted like he was really really interested. We ended sleeping together several times even though I told him I wanted to go slow.I just really felt good with him and he made me laugh. Well things started going very wrong with his divorce and all of a sudden he said it was bad timing andhe woould try to keep in touch but everything was going wrong with his divorce and he didn't think i would be fair to me. I im'ed him quite a few times, mainly encouragment but sometimes you could tell I was hurt. See we had gotten together because he said he wanted a friend and so did I. I heard the divorce is still going on and its been 7months and no word. Even though they say getting close to end. My question is - I'm moving on but wonder if my im's may have ruined things, or if I was just a rebound, or if maybe I'll hear from him again. Really hurt. He liked all the same things and made me laugh. Hard to find in middle age.
disguy Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Yeah i would say that you were just somebody that he needed at that moment in his life. Maybe he's trying to work out his marriage or something. You haven't heard from him in a while so that's why i would suggest that. I would just go on with my life. If he were to call or IM you within that time then so be it, but make sure he's already gone through with the divorce. Otherwise your just his fling/bootycall.
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