Mark1 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 -Rewind to 2005 -Im 15 years old in HS -Cute as hell girl next to me in class -We hit it off -She has a boyfriend, so we become friends -We go to different colleges -Keep in touch, but never see each other for 4.5 years. During this time she had a couple BFs -Fastforward to now: we are 23. meeting up for drinks Thurs -She just broke up with her bf of 1.5 to 2 years -Is there ANY way I can hook up? Will be tough as. She talks to me about her boyfriend and stuff. Any ideas, or too grandeur to even think about?
dasein Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Overtly sexual interest, very forward. Really the only way I've found. Then she can come to LS and gripe that every man she is friends with wants to jump her. Not rude, respectful but unmistakably forward. When they start in with talking about exes or whatever FZ topic, don't go with it. "I'd rather talk about this very nice, frosty drink we are having and who is sitting right here in front of me right now, wouldn't you?" If she balks, after several efforts at direct flirtation over time, it ain't happening. Sometimes it takes them a while to warm up to the idea. Never ever supplicate with stuff like, "well do I have a chance?" or some other supremely sappy, annoying thing men tend to say in such situations. 1
Author Mark1 Posted April 4, 2012 Author Posted April 4, 2012 Have you gained any weight since HS? Has she? We are both in great shape.
gaius Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 We are both in great shape. Then it's possible since she was always occupied elsewhere while she knew you.
veggirl Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 Sure if you guys get drunk I'm sure you have a chance at hooking up with her. Is that all you want? She is on the rebound, so I wouldn't hope for any relationship or anything, but yeah to the rest.
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