lookingforyou Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Is it possible that two people working together just enjoy working together? That there is no hidden romantic feelings? This guy I work with seems to enjoy talking to me a lot. He tells me his work problems and things that make him happy at work. We talk about work most of the time though sometimes he tells me not-too-personal personal issues. Because he likes talking to me so much, we hang out for lunch and breaks quite a lot. I don't get the vibe that he likes me that way since he does not ask me a lot of questions. Yet he seems to, probably because we just enjoy each other's company so it appears that way. Any ideas?
TripLine Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Yes I talked to females at work about random things because the time goes by faster. Dont get too caught up in that crap.
cerridwen Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 My top staff person is a male. Every day, at the same hour, we walk and grab coffee, shoot the sh*t, share work-related dirt and make each other laugh. We've traveled together, drank together, attended work events together and never has a line been crossed. Yes, it's possible two people can work side-by-side and keep things platonic. I say enjoy the friendship with your colleague.
Desinova Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 I can enjoy working with a woman, but only if she is physically unattractive. if I find her physically attractive and I enjoy spending time with her.......I don't think I can help myself.
Author lookingforyou Posted April 6, 2012 Author Posted April 6, 2012 My top staff person is a male. Every day, at the same hour, we walk and grab coffee, shoot the sh*t, share work-related dirt and make each other laugh. We've traveled together, drank together, attended work events together and never has a line been crossed. Yes, it's possible two people can work side-by-side and keep things platonic. I say enjoy the friendship with your colleague. Are you attracted to him but keeping it platonic because that's the professional thing to do? Or do you genuinely only enjoy your friendship? I can enjoy working with a woman, but only if she is physically unattractive. if I find her physically attractive and I enjoy spending time with her.......I don't think I can help myself. Does that mean that the women you work with are all unattractive? If you find any of them physically attractive, you will try to get out of working with her? I can't tell if this coworker finds me attractive or that he only enjoys working with me since we're on the same cerebral level.
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