xztjohn Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 i have ignored all her attempts to contact me, she left me for another guy. its been 6 months since the break up, last 3 months of me completely ignoring her. i jist want any signal that she still thinks about me, its the feeling of being wanted i guess. hopefully this feeling will fade. its my first break up so its better now, but i still think about her from time to yime.
jtnc2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 It gets easier. And wanting to feel wanted is normal and natural, but you don't have to get that from her.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 i have ignored all her attempts to contact me, she left me for another guy. its been 6 months since the break up, last 3 months of me completely ignoring her. i jist want any signal that she still thinks about me, its the feeling of being wanted i guess. hopefully this feeling will fade. its my first break up so its better now, but i still think about her from time to yime. she was contacting you; you ignored her; if she is contacting you,she is thinking about you.
mike588 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 i have ignored all her attempts to contact me, she left me for another guy. its been 6 months since the break up, last 3 months of me completely ignoring her. i jist want any signal that she still thinks about me, its the feeling of being wanted i guess. hopefully this feeling will fade. its my first break up so its better now, but i still think about her from time to yime. You want a signal that she still thinks about you?? You ignored all her contacts from her? YES she still thinks about you!! or she wouldn't be contacting you!! Mine dumped me 8 months ago for her ex. I still think of her from time to time too....it's normal. 1
budley12 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 wish my ex would try and reach out to contact me. rather when I see him passing to class we ignore each other (probably my fault since I initiated the ignoring/awkwardness).
Author xztjohn Posted April 4, 2012 Author Posted April 4, 2012 last quarter she called me once and next day called me and texted "can you help me with a bio question. I don't want to fail," I thot it was better to ignore because last time she asked me it was pointless questions like what was the average when u took it and when does he return the test? So I didn't want to be used so i continued ignoring like i have for the past 3 months. Felt kinda bad a bit and haven't heard from her since. Did I make the right decision by ignoring?
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 last quarter she called me once and next day called me and texted "can you help me with a bio question. I don't want to fail," I thot it was better to ignore because last time she asked me it was pointless questions like what was the average when u took it and when does he return the test? So I didn't want to be used so i continued ignoring like i have for the past 3 months. Felt kinda bad a bit and haven't heard from her since. Did I make the right decision by ignoring? she probably used bio as a way to enter into more meaningful conversation. She was thinking of you; you had a reaction from her. You said she dumped you for another fellow. NC is the best way to go. You got the reaction you wanted; she called.
budley12 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 last quarter she called me once and next day called me and texted "can you help me with a bio question. I don't want to fail," I thot it was better to ignore because last time she asked me it was pointless questions like what was the average when u took it and when does he return the test? So I didn't want to be used so i continued ignoring like i have for the past 3 months. Felt kinda bad a bit and haven't heard from her since. Did I make the right decision by ignoring? only time will tell, you can't keep looking at the past. I too have a problem with this, but it will drive us insane. the things we should have done, the things we shouldnt have done, how we could have changed... blah blah blah, it sucks but no matter how much we wish to go back and do things differently to see if the outcome would have changed we can't. Just have to keep moving forward without looking back. Now I ask, if you had sent that text and she kept contact only to use you for bio help how would that make you feel? if that was her way of trying to keep contact with you it is a pretty crappy one if you ask me.
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