Leisa Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 Hello - I'm constantly meeting men my own age (40's) who rely on their Mothers or they've never been married & they just lead you on & only want to get laid... what is going on out there?
Paradise Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 I'm wondering how old are these men and where you're meeting them. There are many good men out there. You need to be selective on who you choose to go out.
disguy Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Yeah seems like your just running into the wrong kinda men.
UCFKevin Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Over the stars... Anyway. Men in their 40's are relying on their mothers? That's pretty odd, not just one but many? Where are you finding these men?
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 I think you are dating my ex over and over ... oh wait, he is only in his 30s! Where is it you are meeting these men?
Debster Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Ok, instead of thinking this is an issue about men, let's take a look at yourself. Where are you meeting these men? Why don't you run at the first sign of a momma's boy? Are you giving too much intimately too soon? What are you doing to attract these men? Granted, the men you meet might be as bad as you say, but take some ownership for the problem as well. You can't control them but you can change/control yourself. Modify your behaviour and actions to attract the type of man you want to find. Teach yourself basically to demand more.
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