dsw31 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Saw my ex yesterday & totally ignored him. Infact, it was the first time ever, during one of our breakups, that I felt nothing for him romantically.I actually felt like I hate him for all the pain he's putting me through.Later that day he texted me saying "You looked so beautiful when I saw you earlier." I ignored him. Just saw him again in his car, while driving past a gas station near his house (I work in his neighborhood so there's no avoiding the occasional pop-up of him.) I know for sure that he saw me but, not sure if he saw me give him the middle finger.Lol! I couldn't help it! It was my natural reaction to seeing him today.Like I said,I'm not sure if he actually saw me give him the bird. Should I apologize for being immature,or keep up with the NC.(it's only been 2 days of me not contacting or replying to him) We have been broken up for 16 days now.This is going to be our FINAL time breaking up. I have realized we are toxic together & I'm just trying to move on. I want to be an adult about things but, I am hurting. I think I already know the answer to this but - Should I just text a quick apology about giving him the middle finger? Or should I just keep up the NC? What do you guys think?
nature Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 NO. N.O. No apology. Leave it alone if you really want to be done with this toxic relationship. An apology just keeps the communication lines open. Make a decision. Are you done or not? If you are done, then be done.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Saw my ex yesterday & totally ignored him. Infact, it was the first time ever, during one of our breakups, that I felt nothing for him romantically.I actually felt like I hate him for all the pain he's putting me through.Later that day he texted me saying "You looked so beautiful when I saw you earlier." I ignored him. Just saw him again in his car, while driving past a gas station near his house (I work in his neighborhood so there's no avoiding the occasional pop-up of him.) I know for sure that he saw me but, not sure if he saw me give him the middle finger.Lol! I couldn't help it! It was my natural reaction to seeing him today.Like I said,I'm not sure if he actually saw me give him the bird. Should I apologize for being immature,or keep up with the NC.(it's only been 2 days of me not contacting or replying to him) We have been broken up for 16 days now.This is going to be our FINAL time breaking up. I have realized we are toxic together & I'm just trying to move on. I want to be an adult about things but, I am hurting. I think I already know the answer to this but - Should I just text a quick apology about giving him the middle finger? Or should I just keep up the NC? What do you guys think? Toxic. NO. don't do it. My creepy ex would do that also==especially after one of our fights. I wouldn't talk to him and out of the blue he would text me "You are just so beautiful. Looking at your pictures takes my breath away". It's just a way to get to you.
Mr Scorpio Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 No. Nope. Never. Not unless you want to prolong your relationship with this person. 1
Philosoraptor Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 I agree that saying sorry will do nothing but continue to connect the two of you. Just accept what you did (almost everyone takes an immature action after a breakup) and use it as motivation to take the high road in the future. 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 4, 2012 Author Posted April 4, 2012 Thanks everyone! I did NOT apologize & I don't even care to anymore. I am just disguisted by him! I hope I can keep this up! I am in the angry stage now! Feels great hating him! 1
Whisky1981 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 No do not apologize though your reaction was really immature. Ignoring him is fine if you want to but giving the middle finger just puts you on a lower level than him and you dont want that. Angry or not first of all be strong and walk with your head up high.
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