Dancing Queen Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I know, there is really no such thing as a Prince Charming. I know, that to put that upon any man is unfair, which usually leads to feelings of disappointment. I know, that it is not his "duty" to live up to ideals in my mind/heart. I know, I should be happy knowing that my BF loves me, treats me well, spends time with me, tells me he loves me daily and has his own way of showing he cares. So, why do I want more? (Romance (I know...it's defined in many ways) /sexual excitement) Or, how do I get more from him without him seeing it as tho I am trying to change him. Is it really trying to change a person to want these things that don't naturally flow from them? Or, is it really just a matter of them learning something new.... (we all learn to do new/different things....ex: starting a new job...but it doesn't mean we are changed as a person) I am a passionate and romantic woman. I am physically and verbally expressive. I am happy to coddle his delicate heart and provide the re-assurance he seems to require. I do love him...with passion and excitement I find him sexy and attractive...and tell him regularly I admire who he is and his accomplishments But, it feels like playing catch with someone who won't throw the ball back. I want to be happy. I want to be satisfied in my relationship. I want to find a way that these differences between us won't erode the relationship.
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