Mark1 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 -Meeting a 41 year old tomorrow for coffee -I'm 23, she as 24 year old kid (lol) -Really sweet and nice on the phone, outgoing etc -last time i met a MILF, she texted me after we made out and said she feels no attraction. hope that doesn't happen this time -How to play this? True you never mention sex with an older woman? -Any other tips?
Philosoraptor Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 You mention that you and her son can play video games together and maybe go to the bar. I've heard that getting good with the kids really helps you in. 2
Emilia Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 -Meeting a 41 year old tomorrow for coffee -I'm 23, she as 24 year old kid (lol) -Really sweet and nice on the phone, outgoing etc -last time i met a MILF, she texted me after we made out and said she feels no attraction. hope that doesn't happen this time -How to play this? True you never mention sex with an older woman? -Any other tips? She has done this before so just relax She wants your young body and your energy, she will mention sex don't you worry. Be nice, friendly, see if you can build a rapport. You have already spoken on the phone so you know the two of you have something to talk about already. Have fun!
Author Mark1 Posted April 3, 2012 Author Posted April 3, 2012 She has done this before so just relax She wants your young body and your energy, she will mention sex don't you worry. Be nice, friendly, see if you can build a rapport. You have already spoken on the phone so you know the two of you have something to talk about already. Have fun! Thanks. Am I getting sex on the first date?
Emilia Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Thanks. Am I getting sex on the first date? I don't know. I wouldn't push it, it will happen soon enough with a more experienced woman.
FredRutherford Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Thought you posted how you were conflicted about losing your virginity outside of marriage. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/mind-body-soul/sexual-reproductive-health-practices/305392-should-i-wait-lose-my-virginity Am I getting sex on the first date? Why would you think that, Mark? Just bec. she's divorced she would be willing to have casual, no-emotions-required sex on first meeting? Would seriously advise you not to engage in casual sex. It won't do you any good and usually leaves you feeling empty and worse than before.
pteromom Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Thanks. Am I getting sex on the first date? Maybe. Act cool - interested but not clingy or like you want a relationship with her. Don't be crude or make sexual comments unless she does. Compliment her honestly. Ask her questions about herself, but don't talk too much yourself. (You don't want to say anything that reminds her of her son LOL) Follow her lead.
pteromom Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Would seriously advise you not to engage in casual sex. It won't do you any good and usually leaves you feeling empty and worse than before. ??? Not necessarily. As long as you go in with no expectations. It can be fun!
pteromom Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 Ok - just read that post from OP you linked to, Fred. Mark - if it is against your moral beliefs, I too would recommend not engaging in casual sex - or even in going out with a 41 year old with a child your age. What's the point?
FredRutherford Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 Ok - just read that post from OP you linked to, Fred. Mark - if it is against your moral beliefs, I too would recommend not engaging in casual sex - or even in going out with a 41 year old with a child your age. What's the point? Yeah, not a good idea to get involved in casual sex. It goes VERY QUICKLY and is more of an "in and out" kinda deal, especially for we guys who weren't that experienced and didn't really know what we were doing. You can't say all the things you'd want to say to the other like how you "love" them bec. it would feel awkward and be a lie as you hardly know each other. One partner may be intoxicated. Originally Posted by FredRutherford Would seriously advise you not to engage in casual sex. It won't do you any good and usually leaves you feeling empty and worse than before. ??? Not necessarily. As long as you go in with no expectations. It can be fun! It's one thing to have a casual experience and another to recommend them. Took advantage of a couple of casual "opportunities" in my mid-20s but turned-down future invitations as causal sex is horrible and leaves a man feeling worse than before. Trust me, ML, where you put your heart, soul and physical passion into the other, is sooooooooooooo much better than a quick casual thing. I'd never recommend anyone get involved in casual sex, particularly someone of faith. It hurts that area of your life too, though like other wrongs, can be forgiven and you move on with your life...
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