visnaga Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I want to share with you a very complicated situation, I loved a girl and she loved me too, but one day she told me she does not want anyone in her life and love is not everything. After a few days she came to me and told me she was upset and that is why she told me so but I did not return to her as I was feeling bad and told her to leave me sometime but she told me now or never as she does not deserve all that so I told her that I still love her but I have some problems right now so if now or never it will be never. After a few days I felt like I could forgive her and went to her but she rejected me badly and told me she is not a toy and she does not want me anymore. I told her it is OK and apologized for disturbing her and went on with my life. The problem is that I am still in love with her and I knew she is also but I can not try to talk with her again as I will feel like humiliating myself. I appear very happy in front of her as if I am over her but I feel very sad inside. N.B. This is not our first break up as I broke up with her before and went to her apologizing bout 2 times before but this time I think it is different and my heart is telling me to go to her but my self respect is not.
JoeyArnold Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Wait for her & write her birthday cards or come with excuses to do something nice for her once a month or something. Maybe she will come back in less than two years. If you move on then you might miss her if she comes back. She is scared of love. It hurts people sometimes.
Philosoraptor Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 So she made the choice to leave then gave you an ultimatum? She left and now can convince herself that you made the choice not to come back.
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