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I really liked this last one and was wondering why I could not stop thinking about her. Like I said before she is very funny, strong, and attractive. Well on our 3rd date and on the phone our conversation struggled. But I could not stop thinking about her. Looking back when we were at a restaurant I told her she was good at reading aloud and now I remember she was reading like you would to a KID. I have suspected "mommy issues" but now I think I have confirmed it. I don't want a mother figure. I want an affectionate woman who is a good communicator and I don't want to be bossed around or nagged so mabye it just hit a cord or something. What things do I look at to see if I truly liked her or if it's a mommy issue thing??

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Does she remind you of your own mother or just a mother type figure?

Could give you a better idea of whose side the issue is on

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Yeah I'll be happy to clarify. For sure I am not seeking a woman like my mother I promise that. She does not remind me of my mother at all but I guess comes accross as the mother type. I love my mother but she can be very cold and was not an affectionate mother. God bless her but it is what it is and who knows what she went through to make her that way. I just want to meet a woman who knows how to show affection, and is not a nagg or ball breaker and that is not impossible to please. Mabye when she did that (read the menu) it struck a cord subconscioiusly that she is an affectionate person?? Who knows.

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