xztjohn Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 i am very tempted to text my ex saying "how are you doing" i have been ignoring her for 3 months now, ignoring all of her attempts to contact me. last quarter she called me twice and texted "hey can you help me with a bio question? i dont want to fail" and i ignored it. no response on my end. i dont know why but i feel attenpted to text her. any advices to not text her? p.s. the reason i have been ignoring her is because we had a nasty break up where she left me for some other dude and alot of drama came from it. i need advice to keep strong.
Numb79 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 p.s. the reason i have been ignoring her is because we had a nasty break up where she left me for some other dude and alot of drama came from it. Is that not enough reason for you?
sweetheart5381 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Ya, am sorry to be so damn logical, (too bad my heart didn't think that way of course) but what good do you think will come of it? Can you really be friends that talk about stuff? What if she mentions his name? What if she tells she is happy without you? If you can really be friends, then do it, but really consider the consequences of contact. 1
Author xztjohn Posted April 3, 2012 Author Posted April 3, 2012 (edited) i know. she jus left me so bitter, being left for someone else is painful. i just wanna yell at her and shake her for being soooooo selfish and notcaring bout my feelings. we broke up before with me initiating and i never did any of the stuff she did. i cant be frienda with her, i guess what im looking for is a hint that she is sorry. even though i know i wont get it. i would be okay if she didnt date this guy so soon after. i kinda hate her for what she did........ I just want to send her a text telling how ****ty of a person she is. Edited April 3, 2012 by xztjohn
sweetheart5381 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 i know. she jus left me so bitter, being left for someone else is painful. i just wanna yell at her and shake her for being soooooo selfish and notcaring bout my feelings. we broke up before with me initiating and i never did any of the stuff she did. i cant be frienda with her, i guess what im looking for is a hint that she is sorry. even though i know i wont get it. i would be okay if she didnt date this guy so soon after. i kinda hate her for what she did........ I just want to send her a text telling how ****ty of a person she is. Ya, I wanted that too. Didn't get it. Wanted my feelings to be aknowledged. Still haven't heard that, though we are talking again. He prefers to avoid, that's his character, opposite of mine. I know that he can hurt me with a few words if he wants, and that's the risk I take still talking to him. Though I would suggest to you that you don't contact for the reason of wanting an "I'm sorry". They don't see it through your eyes, only their own. Ranting won't make you feel better, trust me. Holding it in hard as hell, but you owe it to yourself to be the better person. Vent on a punching bag, a treadmill, on LS... just don't do it on them... at least you get results from a punching bag, treadmill or LS
Chi townD Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Well, I'm glad you posted here instead of texting her. Just remember, she was mean and bitter towards you. She LEFT you for someone else. Which logic would dictate that she was cheating on you and she valued this douche rocket more than you. She made the choice, now she has to live with her choices. It's not your fault that this new guy is dumb as a box of rocks and can't figure out Biology! Hell, general Biology isn't even that hard! She only contacted you because apparently she need help with Biology. So, she was going to use you again. Stay the course dude!! 1
Author xztjohn Posted April 3, 2012 Author Posted April 3, 2012 (edited) how long did u go nc for and what did u get from talking to him? do u feel like ur life is better now than it was before? for me my life is alot better all aspects of my life has increased, just that i dont have her anymore holds me back from time to time. she always pulls something out of her ass before a huge break to get me to talk to her. Edited April 3, 2012 by xztjohn
sweetheart5381 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Well, I'm glad you posted here instead of texting her. Just remember, she was mean and bitter towards you. She LEFT you for someone else. Which logic would dictate that she was cheating on you and she valued this douche rocket more than you. She made the choice, now she has to live with her choices. It's not your fault that this new guy is dumb as a box of rocks and can't figure out Biology! Hell, general Biology isn't even that hard! She only contacted you because apparently she need help with Biology. So, she was going to use you again. Stay the course dude!! Yes, I agree. I'm not a fan of bitterness, but considering the whole picture, "stay the course, dude!!" Hang in there, there are plenty of really great women out there that won't do that **** to you. Trust me.
Chi townD Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I haven't talked to my Ex in years...and years and years....AND I'M COMPLETELY FINE WITH THAT!!!!
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