xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 So Mr baseball and I spend most of Sunday together. He picked me up from work and we ordered food to go and headed back to his pkace. Sex was amazing. We went at it the minute we got in thw door (that was how much we wanted each other) and we were at it it again 3 more times later on that evening. We had sex in the morning 2 more times but he didn't come the 2nd. I'm a very sexual girl amd I grt turned on easily but I have never been able to orgasm from sex. While I didn't mind that I was a little upset he couldn't come a second time. He even told me it would've been better to go bareback. I adamantly refused becaus e I m not on the pill and even pulling it out is risky and I don't want to risk pregnancy. He didn't press the issue butit makes me a little worried that sex is going to be difficult from now On. On the one hand I cpuld go on the pill but i don't want to take anything's that will mess up my hormones on the other he can't have multiple sex on condoms. Have this ever happened to u guys? I have always been a condom girl tbh.
SmileFace Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Worried about what exactly? The he ejaculated a normal amount of times in a short period of time? So he came 3 times at night and one more in morning .. Am I right? And you are worried?
Saxis Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Yeah, it has happened to me exactly as you describe on a couple occasions, always with condoms. We'd have a pretty active evening going 2-3 times, then a couple more the next morning and things became so raw and desensitized that it just wouldn't happen. Once we felt secure enough with her birth control alone and stopped using condoms, it never happened. I can see why he suggested it, but crazy without any other birth control! The only difference I see is, during rambunctious evenings and weekends like this, my GF will out-orgasm me 3 to 1... at least! She just has no problems getting there at all, even from penetration alone in missionary (actually the fastest method!). She says all the time that it's not fair, but multiples is just a bonus for her and I don't mind at all, even when I don't get one. We also get too raw and tired at about the same time, so it leaves us both completely satisfied! I certainly wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like he's getting plenty, if not more than he can handle!
zengirl Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 You should not be worried about him not being able to cum again with that much sex. On another note, I would be mildly "on alert" with any guy who didn't see the importance of responsible BC and protection, though. Y'all aren't even exclusive, are you? Why would you have sex without condoms?
Els Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I would be very, very wary of a guy who suggested 'going bareback' that early on in a relationship. I really don't think his sexual virility should be the main concern here, PC. 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I'm mostly worried that you are even ENTERTAINING the notion of having sex with this fellow without condoms. Pill or no pill. Bad, bad idea. 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 I would be very, very wary of a guy who suggested 'going bareback' that early on in a relationship. I really don't think his sexual virility should be the main concern here, PC. I know iknow. But I"ll chalk this thing to him being a guy and being stupid Yeah he suggested it but I'm very firm where my safety is concerned. Also for some reason he think I'm a ' ride or die chick' which I took offense to. I don't want him to thin I'll do anything for him. I may be sweet but that does not equate to me being submissive.
Star Gazer Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 As I understand it, you had sex 6 times in about what, 12 hours, and you're concerned that he wasn't able to cum the 6th time? Is this a serious thread? 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 I'm mostly worried that you are even ENTERTAINING the notion of having sex with this fellow without condoms. Pill or no pill. Bad, bad idea. Mme I like to think I'm sensible enough toknow what's right and wrong. I told him no. He can rub against me all he wants but I made sure there was rubber during all our tryst. Like I said he merely suggested,he didn't press the issue. We really had a great. He paid for dinner although I paid him back and he made me breakfast in the morning. I think a part of the problem is whether him not coming was a bad sign or not but he did told me he was really tired from going at it all night. I admit I'm a little sore myself.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Also, since you're having so much sex with him all of the sudden, you could work on learning how to reach an orgasm during it once in a while? That sounds like a lot of sex with no cumming …
Imajerk17 Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 As I understand it, you had sex 6 times in about what, 12 hours, and you're concerned that he wasn't able to cum the 6th time? Is this a serious thread? I liked your other avatar better.
snug.bunny Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Is there NO privacy left these days when people are doing it? Geesh.
FitChick Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Find out the cost of an abortion then ask him for that amount to keep in a savings account just in case you get pregnant from not using birth control. Maybe tell him to get a vasectomy if he doesn't want rug rats. 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Also, since you're having so much sex with him all of the sudden, you could work on learning how to reach an orgasm during it once in a while? That sounds like a lot of sex with no cumming … I've never came from penetration. I've been researching how to achieve it.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Is there NO privacy left these days when people are doing it? Geesh. Next time I post something explicit ill make sure to include a forewarning.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 If you guys really went that many times as you said, then it's quite normal he didn't come the last time. Men build up sperm continually and when "the bucket" is full they feel the need to unload, so they get horny. When a guy comes many times after another, then the bucket unloads and starts to get empty. Progressively a guy will take longer and longer to climax after each time he comes in succession. At one point it will take so long for him to come that the sex would take too long to get to "that point". So you don't have to feel bad about it, it's a biological mechanism he can't do anything about. And yeah it's pretty dumb of him to want to have sex with you without using a condom or you being on the pill after having known you for a relatively short time. Thank you. I figured as much. I really tired him out because he did tell me he didn't want to have sex.
Els Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I've never came from penetration. I've been researching how to achieve it. I know iknow. But I"ll chalk this thing to him being a guy and being stupid Yeah he suggested it but I'm very firm where my safety is concerned. Also for some reason he think I'm a ' ride or die chick' which I took offense to. I don't want him to thin I'll do anything for him. I may be sweet but that does not equate to me being submissive. It's great that you're firm about the use of condoms. As for the orgasming, DID you orgasm at all during that entire sex fest? It sounds like you didn't, but I'm curious why you were upset when he didn't come twice in a row, when you haven't been at all.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Find out the cost of an abortion then ask him for that amount to keep in a savings account just in case you get pregnant from not using birth control. Maybe tell him to get a vasectomy if he doesn't want rug rats. How should they handle herpes, AIDS, gonorrhea, etc.? 1
snug.bunny Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Next time I post something explicit ill make sure to include a forewarning. Thank you. In addition to your pregnancy concern, you mention this: We had sex in the morning 2 more times but he didn't come the 2nd. While I didn't mind that I was a little upset he couldn't come a second time.And this: I'm a very sexual girl amd I grt turned on easily but I have never been able to orgasm from sex. So, which of these things are you most worried about?: (a) His preference to go bareback statement; (b) He couldn't orgasm a 2nd time; © You've never been able to orgasm from penetration; (d) All of the above. Him verbalizing his preference to go bareback -- I **think** most guys have that preference, but saying and actually doing it are two different things. Your concerns are valid, so perhaps you can both discuss it moving forward by telling him you're strictly a "condom girl". Him not being able to have an orgasm the very next morning -- Maybe he was tired from the night before? Not being able to orgasm via penetration --- A large percentage of women do not orgasm from penetration alone. Your "trigger" points are different and unique from one-woman-to-the-next, so explore/see what works best for your body .
kaylan Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Lol post. I already called dibs on writing the screen play. paper, I kid I kid.
Leigh 87 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 As I understand it, you had sex 6 times in about what, 12 hours, and you're concerned that he wasn't able to cum the 6th time? Is this a serious thread? LOL. I think your just bored, hence your post:lmao:
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