Ncb89 Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Hi all, The main reason why I am posting this post is to hopefully obtain some feedback/advice/words of relief on what I am going through. To make a long story short, me and this guy Jon* began seeing eachother mid-september 2011. We both agreed that we were not looking for anything serious, but it turned out to be a relationship at the end of the day without the label. He went to school upstate and we would see each other almost every other weekend. During our winter break from college we were together every single day so naturally, the feelings grew and so did the bad parts(jealousy, arguments, etc). During that break, he had also told me he loved me(which I thought was awfully soon, even though I did feel strongly for him) and also bought me a Burberry watch for Christmas. The one problem is that Jon had been cheated on by his \previous, and only girlfriend of 3 years. This crushed him, and even when we were seeing each other, I could see that he was not completely healed. She would try to get in contact with him, but I think this is just because she heard he was seeing someone new, finally. After winter break, which ended in January, we agreed to take a break, then i decided it would be better to just split because breaks are pointless. We would still text, and after a while I had told him Id like him to stop texting me because it was confusing me, because I still had feelings for him. He would text me saying he missed me, and all this crap, which is why my heart broke when I found out he was home for a day or two, and didn't let me know. I really felt like he was playing head games with me. He came home about two weeks ago , and we met up, had a few drinks and messed around a bit but nothing serious. The next day I was out, and there is this guy Sean*, who I have always had some unspoken chemistry with, and I know he feels the same. I wound up kissing him in front of Jon's friends. Pretty sure they let Jon know, and for some reason I feel guilty about this. Not only because he knows Sean from going to the same high school, but he always had a hunch that I liked him and I denied it. Should I be upset about this? Why should I care if he played head games with me, right?
Philosoraptor Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 You're not in a relationship so you have no reason to feel bad about anything.
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