BMZMJ Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Hi there, I posted a while back about how I was giving my ex some space and time. Well I havent posted here in a almost 2 weeks and since then I met her up with the ex and she made it clear she was trying to move on. Honestly, this was a relief to hear because what was killing me the most was that 'false hope'. this was over a week ago. However, I have made a new lady friend from Venezuela Soon after my break up my brother invited me to a girl's birthday party at a club. She added me to facebook a day later. I initially ignored it but this past week we have been chatting, texting and talking on the phone. I was honest with her from the beginning about recently ending a relationship and that I wasnt looking for rebounds, relationships and that I was looking to expand my social circle. one thing led to another and we ended up having dinner this past friday and we made plans for this coming friday as well. Honestly, we have hit it off in our conversations right off the bat but at this point I am not sure what would become of it...I am just going with the flow. The best thing about it is that I dont feel like I am doing anything wrong, and I am truly enjoying this phase of getting to know her what have I learned? Life cannot be planned. just roll with the punches and learn to adapt and to embrace change. There is always a chance you can meet someone better or at someone better suited for you, and if you're stuck with the wrong person you will lose that chance. 3
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