xztjohn Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 We had a nasty break up where he convinced her to break up with me. He did alot of messed up things to me, like going after her right after the break up and posting on fb soon after basically rubbing it in my face. We almost had a fight if I didn't leave. He almost threatened to kick my good friend out of his house when he has nothing to do with it. This all happened in 6 months time span. If I see him on campus how should I act?? I saw him once before early in our break up I just said watsup so and so, he seemed confused and was really timid and scared to see me. So how should I act if I see him?
darkmoon Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 nothing, you've handling the situation just fine, to me he's confused and timid cuz he sees an attractive ex, a potential rival, hehe i'd be flattered, you're the guy who knows her well and he's the guy who might go the distance or not
Author xztjohn Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 like if i see him and we make eye contact, should I be the better man and say hey and just keep walking forward? or just ignore? My ex told me that she doesn't find him as attractive as me and that she doesn't love him as much as me after our break up. I want nothing to do with my ex nor the guy, I just want to know how to handle the situation at best where it shows that I am the better person. Also, he posted on her wall on fb that "you are so caring and sweet towards me, but I don't feel like I am that close to you, but thats why I love you." It was deleted soon after. I think that posts speaks volumes on their relationship. She still contacts me from time to time through bread crumb texts, I get several unknown calls, and calling asking me for hw help for a class I took a year ago, but I have been ignoring her for the past 3 months now and will continue to do so. I know it shouldn't matter but what you guys think about their relationship?
TaraMaiden Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 you're right. It doesn't matter. look, are you listening at all...? We've had a spate of guys coming on here, lamenting the end of relationships and they all studiously seem to completely ignore what people are telling them. so, let's see if we can make this any clearer: 1: It's over. 2: ignore, and be indifferent, completely, to anything she says, does or approaches you with. 3: forget trying to second-guess anything they do, where they're at, whether it will work - because you can't, and because it's none of your business. 4: It's over. Please take note, and just rebuild your life. that's all you can do now.....
darkmoon Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 that she's using a bit, cuz some women see having no boyf as a sign of failure, treat them like any other students, they don't mean that much to you
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