Why is Sex all taboo and hidden if that's one of the main attractions men have ?

[thatone]

Men are doing themselves a disservice if they think their sole contribution to society is to sex up as many women as possible.

 

Surely, the gender is worth more than that?

 

well, we earn most of the money, write the laws, build the machines, etc. all that stuff too.

[somedude81]

Well... most women don't, which is why they don't do FWB. The women who do FWB fall into two categories: either they are in it just for the empty sex, or they tell themselves they're in it for the empty sex but secretly hope it leads to a relationship because she likes the guy.

That's exactly what I thought.

 

And I've seen so many threads by women in the second category. Just makes me want to shake a bitch.

For me, it's just better than nothing. Which is why I suggest prostitution for guys who can't get beautiful women to have sex with them in every day life... empty or not, it's better than nothing, and it gives you at least some of what you want.

Ah, now I get where you are coming from with that suggestion.

 

It's almost the same thing as somebody recommending Mc Donalds to somebody else saying that it's better than nothing.

[verhrzn]

That's exactly what I thought.

 

And I've seen so many threads by women in the second category. Just makes me want to shake a bitch.

 

Why? It's not a strategy with a high success rate, but if it's what you got, it's what you got. If a girl can't get a relationship in the normal, forward way, why not try to sneak it in? Parents put spinach in their kids brownies now... it's pretty much the same concept. Why get so upset about it?

[somedude81]

Why? It's not a strategy with a high success rate, but if it's what you got, it's what you got. If a girl can't get a relationship in the normal, forward way, why not try to sneak it in? Parents put spinach in their kids brownies now... it's pretty much the same concept. Why get so upset about it?

Because if she just looks, she's bound to find men who would want a real relationship with her.

 

But then that leads to the argument of attraction and standards which I just don't want to get into tonight.

[verhrzn]

Because if she just looks, she's bound to find men who would want a real relationship with her.

 

But then that leads to the argument of attraction and standards which I just don't want to get into tonight.

 

You have no proof, none whatsoever, that this is true. It isn't true for me, and I bet if you dug into the stories of most single women who go for an FWB, it isn't true for them either.

 

Stop assuming women don't have dating problems as well. STOP. IT.

[somedude81]

You have no proof, none whatsoever, that this is true. It isn't true for me, and I bet if you dug into the stories of most single women who go for an FWB, it isn't true for them either.

 

Stop assuming women don't have dating problems as well. STOP. IT.

If my therapist wasn't able to me to change that belief, I don't think you'd fair much better.

[ascendotum]

Attractive people can do things unattractive people cannot. If you are not attractive, but demand sex from attractive people, then pay for it. The end.

 

Yep, this is pretty much what it distills down to. Its not a religious thing and its a manners thing up to a point. If QG was a hot looking guy, being up front about wanting to have sex with the women wouldn't be taboo. Of course even good looking guys can't get away with saving.."hey you look so beautiful and sexy I would like to have sex with you" straight off the bat to a woman they meet at work or at a wedding or at the train station.....though they can and do if they are in a bar or club. I've overherad some good looking guys say some pretty obscene stuff to women they only just met, and got big smiles from the women. When I was skinny, I got it that I was less attractive, but the change in women's attitude to double entendres or dirty jokes or talking about s.e.x. that really frustrated me....and I'm not talking about just 'hot' women, but thats just the way it is.

 

V - I'm amazed at the outcome of your 5 bar experiement. If a girl walked up to me and said 'hey you look cute, lets go back to my place and ****', I'd be suspicious. Am I being punked here, whats the catch, is her biker bf waiting to relieve me off my wallet. If she sprung that line on me, after chatting with her for 15 mins, then it would be a different story. I've seen your pics and I dont get it. Maybe they are 5 yrs old, maybe your voice is like adam sandlers, maybe you walk like a guy, maybe you said lets **** in the first 60 seconds...I don't get why things are like it is for you.