aliyah29 Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I was cheated on a few months ago after I just had my daughter. To cope with the pain I started this blog: watamess Hopefully it can help some heal and see that they are not the only ones in this predicament
ReneeMalcolm Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Sorry about what you're going through. To be betrayed certainly isn't the easiest task to deal with. I suppose time is the perfect healer. Hang in there and just focus on your daughter and her well-being. There is no greater joy than children Take care x
Kidd Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I was cheated on a few months ago after I just had my daughter. To cope with the pain I started this blog: watamess Hopefully it can help some heal and see that they are not the only ones in this predicament I was reluctant to click on the link. We get crazies on here just selling their crap every once in a while. I read your blog today and I just wanted to say I'm sorry for what you are going thru. It may seem like it but you are not alone. I wish you peace and I hope it comes to you quickly. Try not to obsess; you are the only person that can slow your healing now. Good luck to you.
drifter777 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Sorry about what you're going through. To be betrayed certainly isn't the easiest task to deal with. I suppose time is the perfect healer. Hang in there and just focus on your daughter and her well-being. There is no greater joy than children Take care x OP: No, time is not the perfect healer. You taking care of yourself by seeing a counselor and researching forums like this one is a great start. Action that facilitates your personal healing is the perfect healer. I know it's hard, but do something for yourself every day. You need to push yourself but it will become easier as you begin to heal.
Ninja'sHusband Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 ali, so sorry what happened happened Keep posting. People here will support you and talk to you. I agree with getting on with your life. You'll need to grieve of course, which I believe you've obviously been doing, but at some point you have to find new direction and go for it.
PinkInTheLimo Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I am sorry to hear what you are going through. But I think that in hindsight you will realise that you married way too fast. From your description, your husband is a very pretty boy who knows how to sweep a woman off her feet. Unfortunately once he has the woman he gets bored and chases another one. I think you were ready to lead the married life but he probably wasn't. Hence all the fights. You can always come here and share your feelings. There are heaps of life experience on this board, people have been through really bad times so they will understand you. You loved this guy, that is why it hurts so much. It's OK. Try to take good care of yourself and your baby now. It will get better but it will need time.
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