Don't know how to let go

[brneyedgrl]

My mind tells me one thing but my heart says another. I don't know how to get back on my feet this time. There are so many memories and so many hopes I had.

 

I am such a strong, smart woman but I feel so lost right now.

[jennisfora]

that's normal, i still feel that way. just have to take it one day at a time, and try to distract yourself, and focus on yourself. take a nice hot bath, go jogging, join a class, journal the feelings out, read books. *hugs*

[The Great Gazoo]

My mind tells me one thing but my heart says another. I .

 

 

I can so so so relate. Logically I get it -- but my heart is just lagging so far behind. Hang in there.

[blindesided]

I can so so so relate. Logically I get it -- but my heart is just lagging so far behind. Hang in there.

 

I am right there with you too. It sucks and I cant wait for the day to finally be over him & get back to my old self - a strong, sexy, happy, independant woman. Hopefully that will happen sooner than later - I hate feeling like this - there is no joy in life right now - I am just going through the motions & trying to put on a happy face at work and with friends - kind of fake it til you make it - but damn its hard

[jennisfora]

yes it is. i was doing so well, but then i couldnt sleep at all last night. had my cell phone off, but kept thinking the home phone would ring. for some reason, maybe because it has been over a week, that he would try to make sure i was still there. but nope, nothing. turned on the cell, and nothing. feeling sad, but know it is for the best. stay strong. *hugs*

[Philosoraptor]

It can take quite awhile for the heart to catch up to the mind. Treat your heart well yourself by not subjecting it to further pain and spoiling it by taking care of yourself. It will make your healing faster and more complete.