SJC2008 Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Met a younger woman today at my job. She's cute, I was trying to make a quote for an auto repair she needed. Well I ran into a snag on getting a price on a part because it was a dealer part so it prolonged things and I was kinda glad anyway lol. So we made small talk here and there and she tapped my arm and shoulder a couple of times. I walked out with her to "double check" something and she pat my shoulder again when we were talking and a couple of seconds later I asked for her number and got it!!! I give this girl mad props. I asked her how old she was and we talked a little and I threw out that I was 30 but she still flirted knowing I was older. 1
JoeyArnold Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 She tapped my arm and shoulder a couple of times. I've never dated yet but girls have done these kinds of things to me many times. Looking back at my 27 years of life I wonder, out of those girls, which ones liked me & which ones were just being friendly.
Author SJC2008 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Well the truth is you never know but women don't just casually touch a man who she just met IMO. This is only the second time that I can remember a woman I ran into has done this to me. The first one was a while back and I know I coulda got her number but I chickened out.
JoeyArnold Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I coulda got her number but I chickened out. I've never dated but I've asked girls for their numbers before & they gave them to me. Either they gave them to me because they like me or because they wanted to be my friend. I'm not really sure but either one is fine with me. I only asked because I just wanted to talk to them more because I enjoyed talking to them. I hope I'm not breaking their hearts. So are you going to focus on this one girl or get more numbers from other girls?
Author SJC2008 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 (edited) Well I'll see if she takes the call first and go from there. I don't make it a point to "try" to get #'s as I am shy at first and can't approach girls at bars and stuff BUT my job is great in a sense that it serves as an icebreaker for me. I write up customers for auto service so the talking breaks the ice and I try to read between the lines to see if she is interested and if I have a good feeling I dig deep, I mean deep man because it takes EVERY ounce of guts and ball$ I have to ask a woman out. I had major SA and have grown out of it A LOT and thank God that I am. My confidence is getting better with woman but still needs to improve. When I was drinking my soda after coming inside I noticed my hand was shaking so that might give you a peek to how hard it is for me. I just gotta keep on fighting and stay positive. Good luck to you and try to stay positive! Edited April 2, 2012 by SJC2008 correction 2
JoeyArnold Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I'll see if she takes the call first. I've been talking to one girl who lives over 591 miles away for 18 months now because we met once in person & became friends. I started liking her after several months of talking to her on the phone. Another girl I saw several months ago at a Walmart one time looking kind of sad & I started talking to her & after several minutes I just asked for her number. I talk to her on the phone but only because I think she needed a friend. All of my life I've been better at making friends with girls than guys anyways. That is both a good & bad thing. I think that what you have is an advantage. I would treasure your unique opportunity at meeting women. I dream of situations like the one you live in.
Dust Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I've been talking to one girl who lives over 591 miles away for 18 months now because we met once in person & became friends. I started liking her after several months of talking to her on the phone. Another girl I saw several months ago at a Walmart one time looking kind of sad & I started talking to her & after several minutes I just asked for her number. I talk to her on the phone but only because I think she needed a friend. All of my life I've been better at making friends with girls than guys anyways. That is both a good & bad thing. I think that what you have is an advantage. I would treasure your unique opportunity at meeting women. I dream of situations like the one you live in. That girl at walmart needed some dick. If she was hot you could have solved all her problems with your penis. Good job OP on picking up on the signs. I hardly consider a 30 year old man "older" by the way. 1
Author SJC2008 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Yeah I could tell she was interested. One thing I need to work on is flirting. TBH I really don't know what the true definition is or if there is an official way to do it. I'm funny but not witty and I think you have to be pretty witty to flirt.
JoeyArnold Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Yeah I could tell she was interested. One thing I need to work on is flirting. TBH I really don't know what the true definition is or if there is an official way to do it. I'm funny but not witty and I think you have to be pretty witty to flirt. In my experience, wit & humor are brothers: how are the two different? It takes wit to be funny. You can't be funny if you are not witty or brave enough to say something funny to begin with.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 When you have sex with a woman, that's when you know she's interested. I'll celebrate with you when you finally bang her, OP. 2
dasein Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Would be careful about signs of interest one gets from anyone who may be seeking a better price on something if they feel you have any discretion on the price they get. Otherwise good for you for meeting a new prospect, good luck. 1
Author SJC2008 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Yeah crazier things have happened but if that's her intention I'd be surprised but you never know. Now if she wants to negotiate their will be a happy ending lol I couldn't resist.
JoeyArnold Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I'm a homosexual You're fired. Just saying this is my happy ending.
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