Will I be alone forever?!

[winebrens21]

Last November me and my long distance boyfriend of two years broke up and we have no contact. I am only 23 years old, but I can't stop thinking of what we were supposed to be. It was terrible towards the end and I spent most of my days a train wreck, and never put myself first. I am now in a place where I am content, and my mind is clear enough to know that the break up was for the best. We had discussed marriage, kids, and everything else that goes along with it. I think about it everyday, mainly because I am scared that I will never be able to find that again. Do any of you fear that you will be alone forever?1

[budley12]

been in that exact situation -still trying to cope with it. Ex and I dated since freshman year in college and ended 4months ago (Im a Sr). We lived together in the dorms, and were each others first loves. We talked about marriage, where to live, kids, traveling/vacations, etc.

 

I believe that God puts and takes people into our lives for certain reasons. I am slowly starting to see the reason he took my ex away even though I wish it hadn't have happened. When I met my ex it was very unexpected and I think it was a part of the "master plan" of my life, so I am going to just go with that mentality and if someone else shows up into my life, so be it. If I get back with my ex FANTASTIC. If I end up single and alone, then it was meant to be. however if I do end up with the third choice, I will put my effort into helping the world and making a difference while on my journey of finding zen and true happiness.

[jennisfora]

being alone isn't the worst thing in the world. enjoy life, make every moment count so you don't look back in regret. it is nice to share the journey with someone, i know that is important to me, and what i want out of life, but having my health, and my life is precious too. make the best of it, and when you stop looking for it, that is usually when love happens. *hugs*