Love_sick_me Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I'm not sure if I'm posting in the right section. My ex broke up with me almost 6 months ago. We are now in NC. He's seeing someone else, and I am just starting to flirt and showing interests in other guys. Yesterday, I hung out with one of my good friends who is a common friend between my ex and I. She told me that she did something that apparently really reminded him of me. He said:" oh, that way you said that really reminded me of (my name)". He went on and asked how I am. My friend wasn't sure if she could bring it up around me, but she did anyway. I proceeded on politely changing the subject. I didn't want to talk about it. I guess it's true when you're about to move on, your ex always finds a way to haunt you. I don't know what to do now. We had our fallout, but my mentality is that I'm in a really good place, and I truly hold no grudges again him or what he did after we broke up. I would just like to offer some level of peace between us. It just seems like the entire thing between us is more of a cold war because of the way we last talked to each other. He definitely has been shunning me of the few times I ran into him on difference occasions. During those times, I tried to be civil but he just didn't even want to look at me in the eyes. Thoughts?
Lois Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 He will only haunt you if you let him. Just remember: You can't control another's reactions, you can only control your own. Do yourself a favour and don't focus on him. You sound like you're moving forward, so please don't let thoughts of him stand in your way.
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