rbitrage Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Don't want to spend too much time on the details, but been dating this girl for 4 months and basically a couple of months ago we had a fight that was my fault, and I became overly apologetic and the nature of the relationship has been really bad ever since. We used to have an equal relationship but now she seems to all the power and I can't seem to get the balance back. My friends suggest we break up, or at least I should stop reaching out or at least play aloof for a while to regain some value in her eyes, but that may just spell the end of the relationship. I know you can't cling or hold on to something that is not working, but honestly she still asks to meet up but then a couple of times re-sched or cancelled on me. I should specify that she on some super busy work/exam schedule right now so the chance to meet is few and far between but do people have any ideas on how to get some balance back in this relationship. As is I also don't like where things are, and in some sense we talked about where it is, but that didn't work either. Suspect i just need to back off and try to regain some value by pursuing more time with friends etc and see if things improve because i think she doesn't value me as I am now and I think we'll end up breaking up if I don't get back some balance.
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