jamie1987 Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 (edited) Well im bk to feeling really low at the moment my ex broke up with me a month ago and i have been txting her all the time since we broke up i know its the wrong thing to do but i just miss her so dam much and dont want to let go. The reason we broke up was she said i was controlling and spoke to her like **** when i had a few drinks but i have an anger problem and im seeking help for that atm. We got on great apart from that but she says she does not want to be with me that she does not have feelings for me anymore but i said well do u think if i got help and got my anger seen to u could take me bk and she said i really dont know and dont want to give you false hope. I dont know if i have ruined it by constanly txting her since we broke up i just hope ive not coz i really want her back because we have a daughter together and we had a house that she now has. But i just feel so low as im bk staying in my mums and we dont get on well and i have no1 to talk to as my ex was the 1 i spoke to about everything. I went to the docs and got put on antidepressants and im going to see a councillor to. Does anyone think that my current situation that if i get help that i could win her bk because i love her so much and miss her so much Edited April 1, 2012 by jamie1987
Philosoraptor Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I think you need to just worry about yourself right now. Stop contacting her and focus on what you see as issues within yourself.
goohoo Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 Holding on to hope is one thing. Letting it rule your life is another. You need to work on healing yourself first. Because honestly, if things were to go back to exactly how they were before the breakup, do you think it would only end again shortly after reconciling? That's how it usually works. Both parties need to heal and learn from mistakes of the past and have a fresh start before attempting it again, IMHO. Texting her constantly is going to push her away, guaranteed. Give her space. If she comes around, she comes around. If not, then maybe it was meant to be this way, as much as you don't want to hear it. You can hold on to hope like I said, but don't let your life revolve around it.
Author jamie1987 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Hi guys thanks for the reply, i know i should sort myself out first its just hard knowing that in the time we spend in no contact she could meet someone else and my chances will be ruined and it makes it harder that we have a kid but i suppose ive manned up a bit today ive went a full day without texting her and plan to stick to it its hard but i know i need to.
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